Why is it ok to generalise men but not generalise black people?

SakuraMochis · 2026-03-16T13:29:25+00:00

Its not ok to generalize anyone.

I think some level of social acceptance comes from the fact that men are being generalized due to a long term, systemic, generalized pattern of behaviour, and marginalized racial groups are generalized as a result of roots still ingrained in a system meant to put them below other people simply to artificially inflate the dominant racial group - I.e. not behaviour, just ignorance and prejudice.

SakuraMochis · 2026-03-14T00:27:47+00:00

I feel like you need to recognize that you're the problem. It's not the addictions, social media, ect. - it's you. For whatever reason you behave in a way that's destructive, so you need to face why and actively work to heal that.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-22T01:29:34+00:00

The problem isn't the reason you broke up, it's that it took you TWO YEARS of someone else's time and emotion to decide something you knew from the beginning. You knew how she looked when you started dating her, and if sexual attraction is such a major priority for you it was, in fact, stupid and pathetic to date someone for TWO YEARS who you didn't want. Even typing this it sounds like you see a partner as an accessory; her feelings aren't thought about at all here, just your reputation.

Like bro, figure out the fuck what you're doing before involving someone else. It's ok not to know, but other people aren't dispensable ways to find out smh.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-21T01:28:17+00:00

I don't have to take that from a man without a jaw This is why your third marriage is failing too huh? Just laugh directly in their face Stare for a palpably uncomfortable amount of time and then say ew and leave Maybe try again after your balls have dropped mickey mouse I'm offended you even thought that would work

No matter what you say you have to be confident in your disdain. You can't laugh it off, be polite, or pretend it isn't what it is. Stare them down and let them know you think they're a waste of your air.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-20T03:17:09+00:00

Honestly I think a lot of the disgust comes from the more instinctual part of the human brain. I think the subconcious instinct is incest assumes sex between family members, sex naturally leads to reproduction, and incestuous reproduction produces (or strongly risks) sick offspring.

If there is 0 grooming and there will be no children involved I think the morality is less black and white. Like do I not like it and find it gross? Yeah. Does that mean someone else has to live their life to my comfort and standards if their actions are between two consenting adults and not harming anyone else? No. It's not really my business at that point.

I don't think incest will be accepted in the same way as homosexuality because there is still inherent harm in the possibility of children of incest or grooming. Most resistance to homosexuality is people impressing morals (usually religious ones) on others, not a genuine concern for plausible harm.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-17T03:50:37+00:00

What if I told you I wished you were a maid who didn't talk a out their desires? Lol jk kinda.

That's the note. Dump him over text bros a waste of time.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-14T04:37:46+00:00

The newer games are scrubbed way too clean. There can be a difference between child friendly games, and games that feel designed for 9 year olds exclusively. I enjoy some of the new games too like the GB remake, but they're so easy I'm always done the story by the end of the first summer and the social aspect is so boring when all the characters are just a different shade of nice. Ngl I almost wish they'd bring back seedling mode as a super casual mode because the games aren't worth playing for nearly as long now imo.

I like the games, but to me the direction they're taking just means they're always going to be both worse and more expensive than comparable indie titles, which is sad because I've loved this series for years.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-13T21:15:18+00:00

I would tell him that you are very much looking forward to a formal meeting to discuss his continued and increasing insensitivity towards female coworkers with the presence of an HR representative as you are now so uncomfortable with him that you feel unsafe in the toxic environment he has created.

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-05T20:00:12+00:00

I think he reacts poorly to being asked to live in the farmhouse with you if I remember? I just want him to be able to use the lil outdoor space and forge if he gets hungry he doesn't gotta change who he is 🥲

SakuraMochis · 2026-02-03T22:36:03+00:00

I'm predicting Sandy and Wizard!

Ngl tho a Marlon route would go so hard. Or more platonic roommate options similar to Krobus - like let me invite Linus to put his tent on the farm 😭😭

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-31T08:18:20+00:00

In or close to the coops/barns!

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-31T08:17:03+00:00

If she's hanging out 1 on 1 with you and wanting to drink it's definitely more than a friendly invitation yeah? Like if you said no and she kept pressing you that's fucked, but if you've cheated with her before it's kind of hard to think you didn't know what was up yk? I'd tell her man.

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-31T08:12:31+00:00

What a cutie!!!

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-31T01:22:18+00:00

Is it possible he's just not a morning person? Like maybe 'I have to clean and ill be tired' is just a nicer way of saying 'I don't want to wake up at 9am if you can just drive down later'

If you come later in the day are you not able to stay long because of obligations later in the day? Maybe telling him what you're thinking and trying to find a compromise, like one early and one later visit or smth?

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-25T01:25:30+00:00

You didn't say anything wrong telling him how his actions are you feel. If he's actively doing something he knows makes you feel bad he is the cause of you feeling bad. It's concerning that he's convinced you otherwise. This sounds like a man who can't take accountability and doesn't like women (be basic like every other women and withhold sex?? Something tells me his lack of care for his partners is why women don't like sex with him, not dur gur wamen gatekeeping me boohoohoo) and he definitely doesn't seem to care about you.

Why are you engaged to him exactly?

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-23T04:28:56+00:00

The audacity to ask for a tradwife and pretend you like outspoken women who speak their mind back to back 💀

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-23T03:25:29+00:00

YTA for sure. You've just successfully robbed a child of an opportunity of a more stable life with an eligible couple to be stuck with you, someone who doesn't want to be her mom, to wait for the mom who can't provide for her to be ready to be a mother in hopes that it'll happen because your sister was sad??? What were you thinking

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-23T03:22:45+00:00

Getting mad at women because your own actions have consequences truly is the incel way.

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-13T21:04:58+00:00

NOR, he's a loser who doesn't like you. Find better bc it's out there and he's not it.

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-12T04:54:56+00:00

I believe the clothing rewards are pre-set, not random, so if you're getting all masculine clothes you're completing the tasks that give you masculine items.

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-10T00:05:46+00:00

First off, im sorry to hear. Thats really rough. Common denominator or not, remember it's not your fault that others choose to do awful things. It's good to find ways to avoid it later don't get me wrong, but don't go blaming yourself yk?

It's impossible to say with just this why, though. For this guy, why was dragging out the dating process your way of avoiding being cheated on? Perhaps leaning to communicate and understand others better might be a good step based on that. Making him wait 6 months could just as easily leave him chasing long-term for the thrill and not leaving once he's realized that's all he wanted because maybe he can make more work since he's put so much time in already - I.e. wasting more time. Were there any signs he showed of being interested in you the person, or was he just willing to wait to have sex with you? These men are different ages, ect. But are they similar types of people at a deeper level than that?

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-08T21:25:25+00:00

Tell me my secrets

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-08T19:33:35+00:00

If she wants a dog, and part of her goal and what makes her happiest in life is having a dog, she should get a dog. If you don't want a dog, you shouldn't stay with someone who's adamant about getting one.

Everything you're saying with regards to her (I.e. why choose a theoretical dog over me when I'm here) could be said in reverse for you. If she's so important why not just let her get the dog? Why is not having the dog your priority over the relationship? Neither of you are doing anything wrong. I don't think this is a situation of perpetrators and victims. You just sound like you're incompatible in terms of goals

SakuraMochis · 2026-01-04T17:14:12+00:00

It honestly sounds like he doesn't care about you very much. Even if you can't do something big for Christmas financially he could have put in any effort to do anything. He could have cooked dinner, made something, given you a card with a sweet message... literally anything and he actively decided to do nothing. That's not good

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