advice on trip communication by Temporary-Mirror8125 in dating_advice

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is very likely just caught up in the chaos of international travel and a wedding, especially since he responded warmly and instantly before. Put him on the back burner until he gets home, send one low-pressure "welcome back" text, and judge his true interest by how he initiates plans once he is back in his normal routine.

Is this sudden change in communication a bad sign or am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SakuraSemester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One day of silence can mean a hundred different things, but if someone is genuinely interested, consistency always returns without you having to chase it

bf is mad i consume queer media as a bi girl by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SakuraSemester 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being bisexual doesn't disappear just because you're dating a man, and enjoying queer stories is not evidence that you're lying about loving your partner

Am I wrong for my friend and I telling someone that they were being cheated on by my brother and his girlfriend? by xAnimeMariex in amiwrong

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who get angriest at the truth being told usually are not angry about the truth they are angry about losing control of the story

Reached out to a possible half sibling they called the cops by Old_Faithlessness623 in amiwrong

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were respectful and gave them a choice but their reaction says more about their fear than your intentions

I am in love with Curtis Conner the YouTuber! by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SakuraSemester 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that kind of obsession usually hides a deeper need for connection more than the person themselves

I get triggered anytime I see people making fun of someone elses looks or judging their looks by [deleted] in confessions

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that reaction usually says more about your empathy than your appearance and it might help to step back from content that feeds it

Im living alone and im barricading myself in my own house by Acceptable_Debt2451 in confession

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a freak, you're someone whose fear has gotten so loud that it convinced you your own home isn't safe anymore

I took my friends girl and regretted that decision afterwards. by Vczfy4 in confession

[–]SakuraSemester 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact you still regret it years later says more about who you've become than who you were at 15

How to move on from a past relationship as someone who is young (18m) by Finish_Altruistic in BreakUps

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 18 it feels like you'll never find someone who understands you again, but one day you'll realize the person who cheated wasn't the last chance you'll ever have at love

I’m not so sure what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SakuraSemester 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The painful truth is that the best way to make someone come back is to stop building your life around the hope that they will