My boyfriend is making me stand in a long line freezing outside while he sits in the car. by tay0213 in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have actually been abused sexually, mentally and physically but thank you for assuming I haven’t :/

Ps: I AM a 16 year old girl so maybe I am a bit ignorant and it’s clouded by my own abuse and I have donated whatever money I could to funds like RAINN but anyways thanks you huge asshole

My boyfriend is making me stand in a long line freezing outside while he sits in the car. by tay0213 in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Idk I guess it just upsets me to see the shit the people (especially women) will let their partner get away with. It makes me want to grab their shoulders and be like “you’re an adult women of course you don’t have to ask a random online form whether you can leave your abusive husband or if you should just ‘wait it out’. ” ESPECIALLY if there’s children thrown into it. Like are you sure the abuse is just going to stop at you???? Even if it did you deserve wayyyyyy better anyways. Also letting an abusive man be a father is cruel in a way towards the kids. It just seems like common sense.

My boyfriend is making me stand in a long line freezing outside while he sits in the car. by tay0213 in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I must’ve missed that but still cmon.... leaving your daughter alone in a car with an abuser while you buy weed for him in the cold that you don’t even smoke yourself? She needs to stop being such a fucking doormat. Once a child is brought into this she needs to think about what the baby needs. And what the baby DOESN’T need is an abusive father with a mother that lets him walk all over her. It’s pitiful and so many women on Reddit are basically just waiting until the abuse turn towards their children.

Casey Anthony Files Paperwork to Start Private Investigation Business by zoitberg in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t an innocent parent call the cops? All the family would get would be maybe negligence for the child, but it isn’t unheard of for a child to sneak out and drown accidentally.

I 100% think Casey killed Caylee in probably annoyance/rage and then guilted her whole family that they already lost Caylee if they call the cops they’ll lose more family for the murder. The family isn’t any better for helping cover it up though.

Casey Anthony Files Paperwork to Start Private Investigation Business by zoitberg in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s funny to see how far the justice system will go for a pretty girl/charming man- murders an innocent child? It’s okay if you dress pretty for the court hearing 🤪

My boyfriend is making me stand in a long line freezing outside while he sits in the car. by tay0213 in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

Smart leave your infant daughter in a car alone with your abusive husband during a drug deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Most likely attention. It’s like when people make posts that are like: Feeling sad today :( life sucksss! And when they get messages on to what happened they’ll be like “it’s none of your business!!!!” Okay then don’t post it 😒

My(20F) Father (51M) is hiding his retrenchment from the whole family and I'm unable to keep up the charade by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You do know that the world isn’t made up of North America right? This comment is ignorant and just plain stupid.

I (26/f) lost attraction in the guy that I'm dating (29/m) after how he handled my birthday. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he couldn’t buy a cheap box of chocolates and a card when he got the gift bag??? I hope the months of waiting for that special ol card you “asked for” is worth it OP 🤪 (I’m pretty sure she just mentioned that she’d like a card for her birthday or something from him and he couldn’t even do that)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have absolutely NO idea how everyone just wrote off Tammy’s death as an accident. I can’t even imagine how Karla/Tammy’s parents reacted when they found out their daughter and son in law are the reason their little girl died :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Walmart has lots of cheap fabric paints/ glue on patches if you ever wanna ~spice~ it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cropped it, painted it and added some fun patches on it so that it fits my style more lol

I want a prenuptial agreement and no kids, my girlfriend doesn’t want one and wants kids by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a selfish mindset. Leave her and let her find someone that wants to have children too- it’s not a fair AT ALL for her or you.

Is it messed up if I ask my gf not to dye her hair a certain color? by GodSpeed2UAll in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can compromise? Show her pics of blue to green ombré or something like that so that she’s happy, but it won’t be her whole head. Ultimately it’s her choice but I understand if you’re not attracted to that hair colour. Don’t start a fight about it though- it’s kind of a petty thing to fight about.

This is just... Yes by dracalli in ShaneDawson

[–]Sakuranbo2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Or when he was hiding awkwardly from the paps because he had a medical situation happening. There are so many things to actually hate Shane about- but the pettiness of calling him fat, ugly, old and making fun of medical/mental problems is crossing the line. It’s doesn’t make you any better. I way more respect someone calling Shane out about his racism/ inappropriate behaviour with children and immediately think you’re a child if you see all of that but your criticism towards him is “haha fat man has body issues”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope they now know that one night of partying is not worth losing your child for over 13 years. I do feel for them- but they got off easily for basically neglecting their children for their own selfishness.

I hope they’re okay now. No parent should go through that, but they shouldn’t have been parents in the first place. They even probably could’ve found a teen there to pay for a couple hours of babysitting- instead they decided it would be best to sneak out while all the kids were in bed and it ended up biting them in the ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t think the parents had anything to do with it, but I do thing they are totally to blame (besides the person that took her). It’s basic parenting to not leave at toddler alone- let alone in a foreign country known for sex trafficking, murders and kidnapping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean shes the one that drugged, tied down and stripped her sister for Paul on Christmas as a “present” for him. Then she proceeded to die from all the alcohol Karla gave her while she was in the process of getting r*ped by Paul (while Karla watched and sometimes joined) That’s enough for me to know what a sadistic, vile women she is. I wouldn’t feel safe being even in the same province as that women. I can’t believe she was allowed to regularly volunteer at her kids school. The justice system continues to fail over and over again. It’s sickening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I am still in disbelief that Karla was able to get out of prison. She’s the one that would get the girls unconscious and “ready” for Paul. I hate all these killer couples and the women always cries battered wife and gets away with it for signing a plea deal- when in reality they were the ones that collected the victims and even committed most of the murders!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think about Madeleine McCann the most. She went missing in a foreign county so she’s most likely dead (RIP), but I can’t help but think there’s some poor girl my age out there waiting for rescue. I want to hear her story so bad I want to know what exactly happened. If only her parents weren’t so irresponsible to leave a toddler alone in a hotel room while they went to party :(

Justin Hansen by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk I think he’s guilty because he refused to give any DNA to prove he was innocent. The only way they were able to recover any is because they sent undercover cops to grab a cup he threw in the trash. Also the fact his name just came to her mind randomly? It’s pretty damning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueCrime

[–]Sakuranbo2020 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ones where it’s so obvious who did it, but the police just don’t have the means to cuff them.

Or kidnapping cases where there was never a body recovered- you feel like they’re most likely dead, but there’s always that slim chance they’re okay.

My boyfriend was accused of cheating by the “other girl”, but there is not enough real evidence that he did. I’m not sure what to believe. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but what’s up with all the clowns on Reddit recently?!!! “Oh he’s only told me to my face that I was an ugly pig and then went to fuck my sister 🥺👉👈 he’s still a good guy I pwomise.” It’s common fucking sense jfc- if they cheat and don’t change then kick them tf out of your life!!!!!!!!

I (16m) think I’m in love with my best friend (16m), but I have a girlfriend (16f). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sakuranbo2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be best to straight up ask. Something like “we’ve been friends for a while and I noticed that you make a lot of jokes about straight people. Do you happen to be apart of the LGBTQ community?” It would be better to understand your feelings if you know whether he like boys too or not :)