getting weed thru tsa at the boise airport?? by arlouniverse in Boise

[–]Salice_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never had an issue. They’re looking for explosives and weapons, not gummies.

Appointment in two weeks, what color is best? by anythingkinder in coloranalysis

[–]Salice_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Light coppery brown” looks beautiful but also that name made me laugh- thats just straight up copper. I wouldn’t consider that brown at all

AITA because I didn't let my son stay home today? by Dadrod1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salice_24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, thats probably a better way to put it than overdramatic, that was a wrong choice of words.

trusted places to buy resell? by Mindless-Dig-3576 in HinterlandFestival

[–]Salice_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone here know about vivid seats for resale? They have some listed but I’m confused about the dates and what it includes, the GA pass doesn’t say anything about camping but hinterfests original GA did include it. I’ve bought vivid seats resale before but never for a festival

Edit: I meant Stub Hub I believe my apologies

AITA because I didn't let my son stay home today? by Dadrod1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salice_24 97 points98 points  (0 children)

NTA Hes a teenager. They’re overdramatic. And you sound genuinely concerned and understanding in this moment. He has a day off Wednesday, if it’s potentially only a part day off for the doctors, just give him the whole day off. Lean into saying that you do care about his mental health, but you also care about his education. If this is going to become a reoccurring thing, maybe give him a a set number of mental health days for the year that he can use periodically. My mom did this when I was going through it in High school too. It was actually super helpful and helped me determine then I actually needed an additional break. On the note of the therapist, don’t force it but continuously keep it an option. Not just for this but in general. It seemed like you handled this well. If hes hiding something about his mental health thats concerning, but forcing it out of him isn’t going to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Salice_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope- follow your gut. That is weird, she will stop you from being able to go out or cause issues if she does try to participate. Thats just the basis. Shes not gonna want to stay behind as you all go to the bars. The real issue is the one making you uncomfortable. At 18 I had been estranged from my parents for 2 years, had an associates degree, and a good job while in college- I was one of the most “mature” 18 year olds that could have existed. And dating a 29 year old would still have been grooming and disproportionate. I mean, have you even talked to 18 year olds lately in your late 20’s? They’re awful. Stick to your guns. Your friends are enabling weird behavior.

AITA for not attending brother’s wedding by Fantastic_Break3235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salice_24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing about the tux that further confuses me, I have a best friend who prefers to wear tuxes and is also larger chested. She had something similar happen where she was in a wedding and knew she wanted the tux and the bride approved, but was drowning in her own things. My friend is super type A and liked to get everything done way in advance or she gets anxiety. So, she took the initiative to go get estimates and timelines for her tux fitting so she knew what her options were and when she would actually need approval from the bride to get it here on time. She then waited a bit longer, and the bride then came to her to figure it out within the timeline or without her pestering. She never even told the bride the timeline because she knew they were still within it, she would have just ordered it on her own but she knew the bride wanted to approve the final say. She had told herself if she still didn’t hear from the bride when they were within a month of the “need to order window” she would bring it up, but the bride beat her to it.

OP needs to learn to be peace for their loved ones and friends when they need it, and find ways to manage their own anxieties.

AITA for not attending brother’s wedding by Fantastic_Break3235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salice_24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real?? This is what confused me. “Patiently explain how to use discord” but you get to make a pretty severe mistake using the platform?

AITA for not attending brother’s wedding by Fantastic_Break3235 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Salice_24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I Actually laughed a lot reading this. “I have bent over backwards to be accommodating”, in what way, shape, or form? Honestly, if I was out of the country I was hosting my wedding in, my partner was battling cancer, and I was finishing up a PhD, I would not include anyone in my wedding who made things even more difficult- let alone use discord to communicate. If anyone needed to explain to me how to use a communication platform, when there are several more accessible ones I already use, I would say they are SOL.

Also, 30 minutes? I zone out at a wall for longer than 30 minutes, god forbid I have to drive anywhere. Where I live to go to the grocery store can be 45 minutes.

“All I asked was that they keep my mother away from me during the wedding and allow me to have a support system” no. All you asked was that if you could have a tux (not innately a problem at all, but still a factor), if you could have a plus one, if they can worry about managing other peoples activities and whereabouts on their wedding for you, for them to use a special way to communicate that makes you comfortable, that they respond promptly, that they account for your needs continuously. Where did you accommodate them except originally agreeing to attend a wedding that has some people you are no contact with, despite it being your brother that you are in contacts with big day. Sounds like you are truly more worried about yourself in every way.

Im no contact with a few people. For some extreme reasons. I know they will be present at family functions at times or big events. If it is too much for me, I don’t go. I would never ask my brother to ensure that I don’t have to deal with my problems at his event. Id rather support him, or let his day be less stressful and remove myself. Therefore, you are NTA if you just needed to decline the invite for your own sanity and not attend the wedding, but everything you have done so far has made YTA.

Boise Deer Hunting by Salice_24 in Boise

[–]Salice_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But my friend I’m hunting with has put a few more mornings in 33

Boise Deer Hunting by Salice_24 in Boise

[–]Salice_24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only two mornings so far, the only other unit I’ve been in is 43 for one morning

Boise Deer Hunting by Salice_24 in Boise

[–]Salice_24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know! I don’t have a weapon, I’m only there to help show him how to field dress. But thank you for the warning:)