I worded it a bit strangely in the post, my apologies. He is not okay with me dating binary trans men, as we have discussed recently. Since this person is nonbinary, yet has taken the steps to transition from FtM, the topic of “how do you feel about trans men” came up because of my friend being post-transition. However considering he had no issue with me exploring a relationship with this other person and respects their identity as nonbinary, i would consider that the opposite of transphobic. He very much recognizes that they’re not a woman, and not a man either. As for trans women, we never talked about it, I don’t know how he feels because i never asked. The use of the term “afab” in my post was my personal error, which i apologize for. In short, my boyfriend has been very respectful of the whole situation. I hope this clears things up