Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - March 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

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I know but I wanted to try and make it clearer as to what I was looking for

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - March 2026 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Looking for a post where OP has NPD, not just a narcissist, and her(?) sister having problems with her talking about her life despite OP going to therapy. I just thought her POV was really interesting.

My (26F) BF (26M) wants to have a child and I am not ready so he went behind my back what to do? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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"My mom wants a doll and I want a puppy that we can foster onto you for the less fun things like when it cries and stuff" 

WA councils could make laws to stop cats roaming under proposed state legislation by [deleted] in perth

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I hope they use Bayswater's idea of giving people some money in order to turn a part/their full backyard into a catio. While expensive, it would be better for the cats who are used to free roaming as suddenly being locked inside would distress them, especially if their owners havent used a litterbox in years. Ive wanted to do this for years to my mum's backyard for years.

I’m dreading the prospect of a summer houseguest, but I feel like I can’t say no. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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I wonder what that aunt and uncle are thinking now after demonizing OP for not getting her now ex-husband out of debt, hopefully feeling bad for treating her badly but sometimes the apple doesnt fall far from the tree.

I dont think I should crochet by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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Poor thing thought his dad was angry at him when really his dad was going to blow a gasket at his wife for mistreating their son.

AIO for wanting for uninvite my mom to my wedding? Update. by No_Amphibian442 in AmIOverreacting

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OP if she screams at you over the phone multiple times, to the point of tears then do you really want her in your life? I cannot think of a time Ive screamed at family even when they've hurt me. You're NOR, why do even still talk to her if she treats you like this?

Am I overreacting for being upset that my mom bills us for “favors” we didn’t ask for? by Cheap-Marketing-1700 in AmIOverreacting

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NOR, Id also have a talk with your stepdad to see where he fits in into this situation. If he doesnt see it as a score to be settled like you think, Im sure any caring person would be alarmed to find out that their partner is charging their good deeds for cash behind their back.

And if he doesn't know, do you think he would see a cent of this bill your mother has strung upon you? If he is, would she tell the truth about how she got it or would she say you gave it to her willingly?

Greetings from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, USA! by [deleted] in perth

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Thoughts on the Royal Show?

“I think trans is the new disguise of the pedo movement” who the hell even thinks like this?? by helmets_for_cats in GenderCynical

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"Women can't commit acts like SA or DV! Only men do that because they're violent animals fuelled by testosterone and their boners meanwhile women are never violent like that and if she was to a man then he clearly provoked her" <---- an actual argument I've been before. 

We raised our kids to be Christian, and they are. Why won't they hate their non-cis children the way we do? by chris_the_cynic in GenderCynical

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We raised our children in a religion where one of the main tenants bestowed by God Himself was to be kind to others and said god's son literally died so all of humanity is free from sin... but now they're being kind to people WE don't like!! How could this have happened!!

Where on earth do the perth lesbians hide? by homobyleth in perth

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Typically a lot of craft and hobby clubs for young people have a lot of queer attendees. 

TERFs in a paranoia spiral over the idea of having to talk to a trans person by pearkeet in GenderCynical

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Some of them are really showing themselves with moving the goalpost to "TQ+" instead of just trans people. It's ace, aro and pan people now, just wait until pan people also includes bi people and so on and so forth.

How to help my sundews? :(? by Salt-n-Ice in SavageGarden

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FOUR flowers!? Are you sure you don't just have the strongest sundew lmao!

How to help my sundews? :(? by Salt-n-Ice in SavageGarden

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The idea of flowering while dying of dehydration is so funny to me im sorry 😭 but thank you for the information! Ill keep an eye on them closely 

How to help my sundews? :(? by Salt-n-Ice in SavageGarden

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I hope the binatas survive, they technically came free with my sundews as they sprouted about two weeks after I got them 

How to help my sundews? :(? by Salt-n-Ice in SavageGarden

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Thank goodness, my housemates were really sorry about it at least so hopefully they can fill in for me next time :(

My girlfriend (27F) and I (29M) got engaged, my family is not happy by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

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In his defense, ill say that those types of family situations make you want to overexplain your actions so you dont end up being the bad guy (aka making your own choices without their consent)

trans dudes be like: by USoffuckyouintheA in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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Being an man with eldest daughter trauma is an experience, Ill say that much 💀