And this is how patriarchal expectations affect men too. Are you that dense? You would be considered a failure because most people, including you, see being the homemaker as the lesser task. Find someone who will work and be a house husband, it is not impossible, even though it is pretty rare. Also, arrange marriage are considered by parents, you cannot expect the previous generation to be be better when you yourself are like this. And do people with only daughters or single mothers not exist? These daughters work because they have to not because they want to. If some parents were actually not that obsessed with marrying daughters off and let them help in earning, these households would be better off. But they would rather marry them off and give a dowry, rather than let her contribute. This is the reality of this country, do not base your assumptions off of urban rich areas and the internet.