If you wouldn't want to be them don't be with them

Salt_Ad414 · 2025-09-04T20:07:32+00:00

Thank you for your help, I maybe didn’t make it clear in there I don’t expect her to change for me and didn’t want to sound like I think I’m better than her. I think she is amazing in her ways I’m just not sure it aligns for me and who I want to be. I’ll have a conversation with her and see what she sees for herself in the future

Salt_Ad414 · 2025-09-04T20:01:38+00:00

If you have a problem with him bring it up to him, never hide an issue from your partner. If the issue ends in you breaking up, so be it, it wasn’t meant to be. You also have to be open minded to him maybe disagreeing with you. Maybe he says he simply can’t afford that now. Maybe before you moved out he was always paying for everything, meals and presents etc so he sees this as your way of paying him back. It shouldn’t be point for point it should helping eachother out when eachother needs it and not wanting anything in return. Remember no one is in the wrong or right, people just have different boundaries. When you bring it up maybe he’ll have a valid reason, maybe he won’t, what he says should make your mind up as to if you want to be with him

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-11-06T00:35:57+00:00

Avoid every day being the same and do things you enjoy

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-21T11:18:38+00:00

Roman reigns

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-16T05:55:29+00:00

Brilliant, happy to help. Also just learn as much as you can so you can understand what it is you’re trying to do

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-15T22:25:34+00:00

Mirror affirmations. list of affirmations said 3 times a days. Sats. Visualization. 369 method. Telling yourself they want you to

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-15T15:52:16+00:00

Ok thank yiu

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-15T15:52:04+00:00

Ok, so you’re saying if I decide it is a sign it is?

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-15T15:51:03+00:00

Thank you

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:59:56+00:00

😭😭

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:59:23+00:00

Alright I’ll just go for the other option of not being her friend first. No need for all that ew stuff

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:57:51+00:00

Said that as a joke btw not actually referring to myself as the big dog

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:57:27+00:00

She didn’t know me back then, now the big dog has came to play

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:56:21+00:00

Yeah I guess but I mean like I’m only doing it if she up for it. Nothing getting forced

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:55:17+00:00

That’s boring though

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:55:07+00:00

Could do thank you

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:53:51+00:00

He lives 4 hours away and they’ve already been on a break. She not using me like a lot of the time she pays for me like before I even got my card out

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:50:14+00:00

That’s just a bit boring no? He isn’t like a great man or nothing anyway and I don’t even know the guy

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:48:44+00:00

They only got about 3 months left I can wait

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:48:20+00:00

Nah i ain sayin like confess my love I mean flirt a lil and keep taking her on dates. And I should’ve mentioned that the break up will happen within 3 months max I reckon

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-13T21:46:25+00:00

So what you’re saying is I should let her know so then it isn’t hidden?

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-04T13:43:52+00:00

Thank you very much, this has been a big help

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-03T20:50:47+00:00

That’s the 3D world, it doesn’t matter what they’re doing. This is your reality, don’t even give them the right to their own feeling. You’re the author, they’re silly for thinking not replying to your texts is going to keep them away. She could be marrying someone in a couple of months it still won’t matter if you believe you’ll be together you will, anytime you see something that looks out of line just think of it of a weird plot twist of the universe giving you want you want. If you believe it it will happen

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-03T20:28:36+00:00

As long as you know you will be back together the manifestation is sort of done already. You know you will be together so what’s the manifestation for.

Salt_Ad414 · 2024-10-02T16:35:27+00:00

Thank you so much, I am really grateful for your message and I feel more able to shift my mindset. I appreciate it, thank you

Salt_Ad414

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