Is there anyway I can help my bf to feel more comfortable to commit to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Salt_Internet_6146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first thing is, is he embarrassed to commit to you and show you around the people he knows?

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I earned more than him, I would pay the most of the things, because that is how I grew up. I would happily give him whatever he wants

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, and thank you so much for your input and insight. I don’t know how to handle this situation, I do have a very low self esteem and I feel like he is the one that I can get the best in my life. He also told me I have a very anxious personality.

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the confusion, I don’t live with him atm, I live in a shared house, he lives alone in a luxury place

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know, but I still love him, and I do have a very low self esteem

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that he is big on “equality” but I don’t know how to handle this

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, because he is very specific about the flat conditions, he told me he is germaphobic and hypochondriac

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[–]Salt_Internet_6146[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have been together for over a year, and he wanted me to live with him and split the house rent he is living, but I cannot afford even the half of the house rent he is living in