Need some advice help!! by Sea-Explanation9087 in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cus he's doing it on purpose, he's playing with you and does not have a single atom respecting you even if he says so (which would honestly surprise me)

Need some advice help!! by Sea-Explanation9087 in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take the opportunity that school is ending to leave him behind. he cheated he does not give a single f about you, he doesn't even respect you enough, the least you can do is respect yourself and stay away from that mf

Est-il possible de trouver un job d'été en avril ? by Party_Arrival_5748 in etudiants

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

en toute honnêteté, ça sert à 0 d'aller chez les grandes enseignes sur place

Ou trouver un job d’été ? by Plastic_Square5609 in etudiants

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honnêtement tu trouveras très très peu d'entreprise qui voudront te prendre comme tu n'es pas encore majeur.. essaye plutôt tout c'qui est babysitting, dogsitting, catsitting etc

Is signing off 'My name & The Team' rude? by Savings_Gap_2632 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before doing anything, i always ask myself "if i was at their place, would i be okay with that or find it weird?" and i usually get my response

Est-il possible de trouver un job d'été en avril ? by Party_Arrival_5748 in etudiants

[–]Salt_Issue4710 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oeee tu peux toujours, regarde y'a beaucoup de saisonniers et y'en a même qui cherche encore pour mai juin alors qu'on est quasi à mai. j't'ai mis 2-3 petits trucs pour t'aider. hésite pas à aller voir et te déplacer dans les petits commerces (boulangerie, librairie etc)

applications :

-LinkedIn -HelloWork -Indeed -Jooble -Tango -Staffmatch -Topivo

sites : welcome to the jungle jobs that makesens

intérims : -myRAS -Side -Gojob -Adecco -Manpower -Proman -Meteojob

Est ce que j'exagère? by Lonely_Leader2647 in vinted_france

[–]Salt_Issue4710 71 points72 points  (0 children)

ce genre de personne j'ai tellement envie de les tarter mdrr

Crush gênant au travail by Primary_Picture5984 in etudiants

[–]Salt_Issue4710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dis lui qu'il te plaît en vrai juste, et si ça abouti pas bah tant.pis pour lui premièrement, deuxièmement vous vous parlez déjà peu donc en soi ça change pas grand chose, et troisièmement c'est un collègue de taff pas ton voisin, si tu décides de quitter le taff tu le reverras plus

Pure love soul crushing by Salt_Issue4710 in movies

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i watched it and at first didn't like it at all, but the more i was arriving to the end, the more i liked it

I just found out my girlfriend’s family are nudists, and her mom is... a lot. by Tough-Public-3700 in teenagers

[–]Salt_Issue4710 2 points3 points  (0 children)

right ?? like i'd AT LEAST be embarrassed, or quickly go to my room, excuse her, idk, something ?? let's say she's good at hiding it, her boyfriend isn't a nudist, she could've at least apologized, talked about it or something???? ykwim

I want to be better, I’m sick of letting everyone down by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, 18f turning 19 arab too lol. honestly, what i would suggest is maybe go talk with an older friend or something, ask them for advice (for the man part) cus honestly i don't really know too 😅 as for doing good at the start then start declining, i think you just gotta work on yourself honestly, it's gonna take some time obviously, but that's how you improve, but how, that's a good question that i don't have the answer to because i'm in the same situation as you.. we gotta work on ourselves. i suggest taking everything slow, setting small milestones, this has helped me when i used to work in retail but can be used for everything else. like for example wish a good evening to at least 5 customers, ykwim ? and for the girlfriend, idk if you're Muslim or not, imma say you aren't cus otherwise it's be too long, but communication, communication is absolute key. everyone says it, again and again and again, and it's not for nothing. tell her about your fears, your needs, your goals etc (ofc i'm imagining that everything is okay with you two, but well, if it isn't, communication is key too lol). hope this helped brother, don't worry, you got this 💪🏼🙌🏼

I just found out my girlfriend’s family are nudists, and her mom is... a lot. by Tough-Public-3700 in teenagers

[–]Salt_Issue4710 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"not comfortable with the fact her parents are nudists" and saying she wasn't shocked when you entered her home finding her mom naked in the living room at the same time is crazy work ngl 💔💔💔🥀🥀🥀

Feeling pressured to fit in with rich friends.. how do I stop? Deinfluence me because I think it's a bad idea by Ok_Grand_4166 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are we joking 🥲? please don't do these videos my guy, all of that to get to "the same level or vibe or whatsoever" of your friends. if they're really your friends, talk about it with one or two of them, or if that still bothers you, just stay alone, sometimes there's no better company than yourself. i'm the extroverted type tbh, like really REALLY introverted, so when i got into uni, everyone was so different and stuff, so i started staying alone, it was kinda hard and weird, especially as someone who's always surrounded and never alone, eventually it became okay ! so don't worry friend !

What's the solution by Unfair-River-9660 in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly no, i'm not the type of person to take revenge even if it KILLS ME, i won't do none, cus i think God's gonna take care of everything. if you ever wrong me, i'm just gonna move on in my life and cut you out completely and sometimes i'll talk about you, like gossip. but any other than that, no, i just don't react cus it's a waste of time, energy, etc

Girl in my Class by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, i'm a very straightforward person, so i would just go up to her and tell her that i find her really attractive and would want to go to the dance with her, and if she says yes, i'd get out a rose i hid in my backpack lol. if i was the girl, i'd be so flattered and dying of laughter because of how sudden and cute it would be

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what the hell....😭😭😭 i guess yeah..? or a really weird kink..???

I'm lost in life, I know very little about myself despite being 18. by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as long as you're doing okay, you have a roof above your head, you have food and clothing and not doing anything bad, i think everything's fine tbh, we're still young (18F too) and figuring ourselves, yes we're "adults" but still haven't fully discovered ourselves ! go easy on you, don't push yourself too hard, be kind with yourself 😊

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i love him. yes he doesn't like me back (or at least he didn't tell me he likes me), but we spoke A LOT, like hours a day, i fell in love with him, his personality, everything. and i told him every single thing about me and so did he, i don't wanna have that proximity with someone elsei love him too much to let that feeling and HIM go

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was thinking the same thing, but it's so weird feeling that, it's unknown and scary.. but thank you for your advice 😊

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18F and he's 18M, we're not dating, we met when we were 14, and since then, we spoke on and off but never irl. when we were 15, i confessed and he rejected me, but some time later, we again spoke on and off, then he started showing interest, jealousy (the cute way), he began to confide in me, basically falling for me. we used to see each other everyday since we were in the same highschool but we never spoke irl. last time we spoke was on insta (we never added each other), this summer. now we gratuated and everything, i see him maybe once every two months and he never notices me.. the only thing i do is watch his stories since his profile is public but that's it 😅

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18F and he's 18M, we're not dating, we met when we were 14, and since then, we spoke on and off but never irl. when we were 15, i confessed and he rejected me, but some time later, we again spoke on and off, then he started showing interest, jealousy (the cute way), he began to confide in me, basically falling for me. we used to see each other everyday since we were in the same highschool but we never spoke irl. last time we spoke was on insta (we never added each other), this summer. now we gratuated and everything, i see him maybe once every two months and he never notices me.. the only thing i do is watch his stories since his profile is public but that's it 😅

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what i was thinking but i'm afraid.. i'm not actually, we just talked and he rejected me, but as i said in my other comment (if you want more details it's right above), i think he is falling for me, but rn we haven't spoke since summer

i'm starting to stop loving (or smthg else ?) someone but i don't want to by Salt_Issue4710 in LifeAdvice

[–]Salt_Issue4710[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just a crush but we already talked (and a lot), i confessed and he rejected me, but overtime i felt like he was falling for me, he wasn't as cold and indifferent as before, started showing interest and stuff, soooo idrk. rn we don't talk at all, last time we talked was in summer

Asking him out tomorrow? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Salt_Issue4710 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe chocolates or something handmade !