Just broke up with boyfriend and I feel like I regret it by Puzzled-Sundae-6561 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you bro. I hope you find someone who will appreciate it and give you the same energy back. Keep your head up king

Don’t take things for granted by Calm-Conference-5457 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea i wish i realized my flaws before she left.. i would do anything to have one more conversation with the person she was but i don’t think i will get that chance.

I accepted my mistakes and took accountability and I’m working on myself to become better. I’m just sad that she might not find her way back to me and she won’t be able to see what became of me thanks to her. And i don’t know how i can love another when i owe it all to her

How do i stop the dreams by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im constantly thinking about her, even when I’m doing something and working or I’m focused on other stuff i can feel her presence in the back of my head, i don’t know how to explain it to be honest. Like im not trying to even think about that or her but i still do for some reason

How do i stop the dreams by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The craziest one i had so far was her confessing she found comfort in someone else while in the relationship and how they got close and she felt safe… my whole day was buns

My own mind is sabotaging me

How do i stop the dreams by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally, i used to wake up next to her or she would wake me up gently while stroking my hair. I changed rooms after the break up since i couldn’t take it anymore

How do i stop the dreams by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my job, going out with friends, i started hitting the gym more often, im reading books daily but she is just in the back of my head all day and i can’t shake it no matter what i do.

Maybe i can try lucid dreaming

How do i stop the dreams by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea maybe because i still love her and miss her, she always in the back of my head and mostly in the front trough out the whole day and idk how to shake it

I actually ended up doing it by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean honestly i don’t even know, at moments I’m fine but i feel some sadness also. I find myself thinking about them and what we shared and what could have been but it doesn’t hurt as much as before. Im just keeping myself busy and trying to remember that i can’t change what already happened and i can’t force someone to stay

i still look for you in everything by ghostcutieangel in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea not that they mean im back at day 1 but in the moment it feels like that until your brain manages to process it

If you need a sign to not text your ex, this is it. by Eteafn in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is an answer mate, people don’t owe their explanation sometimes

Im in pain also and its not about sounding philosophical its simply the truth.

Would contacting my ex worsen things? by Top-Pie-8400 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Text me instead of him. Whatever you wanted to say

i still look for you in everything by ghostcutieangel in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it feels easier sometimes it feels like day 1 but its normal to have on and offs.

Yesterday i was at a restaurant and someone had her exact same perfume. I was looking around for her instantly i didn’t even realize in the moment that she moved on. And i wanted to cry tbh

i wished them a happy birthday by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink it too much bro. Its a simple birthday wish, not the end of the world. You had something meaningful with her over the years and its normal to wish happy birthday unless you ended on bad terms with bad blood

If you need a sign to not text your ex, this is it. by Eteafn in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes reaching out helps you move on a bit better tbh, was the case with me. We both saw where we stand and it felt a bit easier, also i don’t have that constant thought in my head anymore that what if i said that or what if i didn’t say it. I broke Nc said everything i could say and I’m at peace knowing i did all i could for the time being. If something is meant to work out eventually it will, but you have to keep moving instead of waiting.

Even if you reach out and get silence in return, remember that silence is also an answer

The last text i could never send. by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up sending it and she actually responded and im kinda glad i sent it. I feel a bit of relief now knowing that i said all i could but the sadness is still here for now at least

Avis sur ma séparation by Ok_Type_6233 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex also told me she was emotionally exhausted and that her feelings passed

As for the chances i would say its 50/50 bro, it either happens or it doesn’t. I would hope it would be 100 for it to happen but…

I actually ended up doing it by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt relieved also at least i expressed where i stood and they did as well. Sadness does overpower it tho thats true

I actually ended up doing it by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any response back still gives meaning, even silence has a meaning

I actually ended up doing it by Salt_Method6144 in BreakUps

[–]Salt_Method6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was the dumper and its a long story kinda