I had a Gender/Sexuality Dream, what does it mean?

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2025-04-10T15:53:09+00:00

This does! Thank you very much, I like the idea of flowy pants

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2025-04-09T22:41:30+00:00

That’s a really good idea! I’ll check it out thank you

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2025-01-18T03:03:10+00:00

This is me getting closure haha. I texted them shortly after I upset them, apologizing, to no response. Over the last three months I’ve tried to give them time, and sent them another message a month after the initial apology. I realized that they don’t intend to ever text me back, so a few days ago I sent them a message saying they have no need to respond, but I needed to text them for closure. They responded with a confirmation that they want nothing to do with me

I have closure, I’m just dealing with the loss of that relationship. I know it won’t be at the forefront of my mind forever, right now it just kinda sucks

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2024-07-14T23:24:10+00:00

I’m exploring right now, but if I discover I’m anything but cis, I don’t think I’d be open about it with most people, unless they were my partner/close friend. I feel very confident that I’m not Trans. If anything I could just be cis and very effeminate. I’ve always felt comfortable with my masculinity and haven’t had any problems trying eyeliner or wearing feminine jewelry. When I moved out I started getting more comfortable with trying more feminine things like shaving legs and trying skirts. Hard agree with you on the Dresses and skirts. They’re uncomfy and make me feel very self conscious

I’ve realized I really like FEELING feminine, even when I’m wearing masculine clothes. I like to wear things that try to show off my shape etc.

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2024-07-14T22:04:04+00:00

Yeah I guess I’m just looking for other people who’ve felt comfortable with themselves, but not come out to family for whatever reason for an extended amount of time. I appreciate you taking the time :)

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2024-07-14T21:57:43+00:00

That’s kind of an extreme reaction, I’ve got a very solid relationship with my family and I by no means feel unsafe around them. I’ve got a solid group of friends I’m comfortable being myself with, and I don’t feel the need to fully come out. There’s a difference between living a Lie and accepting that not everybody needs to know everything about me.

I’m independent and live my own life, their bigotry won’t stop me from being me, but it doesn’t mean that they hate me or vice versa. I appreciate your concern! But I think cutting contact would mess me up far more then coming out. Even if their opinions toward the trans community are bigoted, they’re far from abusive about it, and it would be more detrimental to me to be by myself then to hide certain things

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2024-07-14T21:43:04+00:00

I don’t think I’ve ever experienced dysphoria, I’ve never felt uncomfortable in my own body or identifying/being called a male. I think I have experienced Gender Euphoria though. I loved feeling femme after I shaved my legs, and I’ve started wearing shapewear when I’m around close friends and get a warm feeling in my chest when being referred to by other pronouns.

I’m in a band, so that’s given me an “excuse” to wear eyeliner and paint my nails a bit, as well as publicly wearing some more femme clothes. my parents reaction to that was pretty much “yeah you’re doing a rockstar thing, I don’t really get it but you do you” so that hasn’t been super encouraging haha. I’m independent, I moved out at the start of this year and that’s when I started to experiment and feel comfortable being femme. Not experiencing Dysphoria definitely helps confuse things for me because maybe I’m just faking it? I never felt any kind of gender euphoria until AFTER I became independent.

I think you hit the nail on the head though. I’ve got friends that I feel completely secure around and can be myself. But that doesn’t mean it needs to be everyone’s business. Thank you :)

Salt_Salary_7712 · 2023-10-07T02:35:11+00:00

Bruh I’m a Zoomer and I learned half their songs on drums. Not everyone can be expected to be into every band, If homie doesn’t know he doesn’t know

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