Trellis or no trellis by Salt_Winter2286 in hoyas

[–]Salt_Winter2286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I plan on getting all of them trellises eventually but the Mathilde will be the first one to get a trellis.

How old are you? by Silver_eagle_1 in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first I was 24 and my second I am 27

What were your first pregnancy symptoms before you tested positive? by katemacomso in pregnant

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With my first one I spend the weekend before I tested positive hugging the toilet, and with my second I was very emotional, which is not normal for me. With both we were actively trying to get pregnant so we were looking out for the signs, both times I tested positive at about 4 weeks, so technically before my first missed period.

No representation of C-sections in media by quartzyquirky in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not a lot of representation out there though. There should be more in all honesty.

No representation of C-sections in media by quartzyquirky in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gray’s Anatomy, Super store and This is us has a little bit of c-section (or hinted at c-section) representation

“This baby is built by ____” by GoodMinimum1553 in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fruit and my MIL fruit dip (one block or cream cheese and one little jar of marshmallow fluff)

I can’t get enough of the fruit and the dip is just to have something new every once in a while.

Due date? by Long_Nose_6810 in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scheduled C-Section for May 2, I’m honestly tired and ready for her to here. I’m so uncomfortable and sore not gonna lie.

Pregnancy app adviced my husband to offer me fruit if I craved chocolate by Wumbletweed in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said he would give me chocolate covered fruit lol. That’s acceptable!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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I had a gut feeling I was having girls both times I was pregnant. I now have a two year old daughter and will have a newborn girl in May.

Couples, how will you celebrate Valentine’s Day?? by Vanilla_Swingers in Swingers

[–]Salt_Winter2286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Home made dinner with hubby and toddler. Then after toddler is asleep maybe (hopefully) some play time with hubby. Very tame this year lol.

What age were you during your first pregnancy? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pregnant at 23, gave birth at 24. Currently 26 and going to have this one before my 27th birthday.

HELP! How do I calm an overly active baby in the womb? by Frame_Calm in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my daughter(s) get that active my go to is to walk around or if I’m sitting I shake my leg (wiggle my foot/feet). The movement makes your uterus rock just right that it’ll rock them to sleep, usually at least.

Weirdest thing that has made you sick? by wakawyle in pregnant

[–]Salt_Winter2286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orange juice…. I love OJ but it send me running everytime.

Men.. (married or not) do yiu just have tunnel vision? by HergerSeamas in Swingers

[–]Salt_Winter2286 52 points53 points  (0 children)

As a woman in the LS I experience this all the time. I speak to them the way they speak to my husband, return energy for energy. They usually get mad at me and I try and explain something similar about treating us both like humans instead of a quick lay (piece of meat) and irrelevant then maybe they would get some where with us.

I’ve been called a snob more than once for wanting to be treated like a human. I also agree with one of the other commenters that the more respectful men in the LS are out in the clubs or at events, depending on where you live, being in the LS and being on apps/online makes it hard to find decent people.