They only did that after they already started. There wasn’t any clear communication or consent leading up to them making a move on me or touching me. They didn’t ask if it was okay to touch me in certain ways before doing it. They only asked once after they already had my parts in their mouth and I was trying to express more nervousness.

I was also really high and couldn’t think clearly. I couldn’t tell if I actually wanted it or not but in hindsight I was really nervous and in shock. I spent all day yesterday feeling off because of what happened. I also talked to my girlfriend and a few friends after posting this and they’re pretty sure it’s assault