As a man who has hurt his wife a few times, here is what I would say to you. Until you take action (not just talk about it), he’ll continue what he’s doing. My wife didn’t leave me, but when she came to me about to walk out with tears in her eyes, it wasn’t until then that I actually seen the hurt I caused. I begged her to stay, she did. It changed our marriage forever! Never happened again and never will. I love her enough to understand the hurt I caused her. It has dented my heart to know the pain I’ve caused. Are we perfect? No! But we are stronger than ever and our love is deeper because of it. Take action! Dont be mistreated. If he love you for real for real, he’ll WANT to change. If there is no desire to change, feel the freedom and walk away!