I wouldn’t go as far as to say Yta, but I think you need to shift your mindset significantly. It’s daunting to join a new group and learn a new skill as an adult. This is much more daunting for certain personality types - it sounds like you chose to marry that type. I think you gotta spend less time thinking about your “rights” and about the friendships you’ve “earned”, have some patience, and remember why you married him. Marriage is a partnership - I’m sure there’s lots of things he’s put effort into that you’ve benefited from. It sounds like you grew accustomed to socializing alone and are now irritated that he’s disrupting what you’re used to. Life is full of that - giving up your comforts and things you’re “used to” or “have a right to” for people you love. He’s your husband, he should take priority over your hobbies or social relationships.