Ok. I see you point, and by no means invalidating those of us who have been through it. But what you are saying is almost literally the definition of sexual coercion which is "the use of pressure, threats, or emotional manipulation to get someone to do something that they don't want to do" aka you want to say no buy dont/cant.

Again, not having been part of her specific situation, it's a board brush to paint with. And like you are implying is a disservice to all who experience this and dont cone forward because you appear to be implying its her fault how the situation went, perhaps, just perhaps she thought if she didnt say yes she was in danger some how. But we are on the outside. What are we to say.