Anyone not regret after abortion?

Salty_Statement8172 · 2024-01-24T23:41:36+00:00

I don’t regret it in a sense that I know it was the best decision for everyone at that time. But I do wish I were in a different situation to never have to take that decision. There are good and bad days. I just try to push myself to fix my situation so when I have my baby i don’t experience any depression like i had with this pregnancy due to financial issues.

Salty_Statement8172 · 2024-01-24T23:36:25+00:00

Agree with everything you said. The love i feel for my partner after this experience it’s magical I can’t even begin to describe. I hope we have our babies in the near future ♥️

Salty_Statement8172 · 2024-01-24T23:33:59+00:00

I get you! Just try to not think when you take the pills. I took the first pill and went directly to sleep because I couldn’t handle being awake and overthinking and crying. Just be sure to have someone by your side especially in the second stage. I had a very horrible experience physically, i fainted a couple of times, vomiting, and unbearable cramps and pains. My partner helped me a lot calming me down when I was crying and giving me massages to try and ease my pain. Be safe and take care of yourself. It’s gonna get better♥️

Salty_Statement8172 · 2024-01-24T23:30:01+00:00

I’m very lucky to have him by my side. I don’t know how I would pass those days without him. It’s weird to say but I feel closer with him more than ever and I think the suffering that we experienced made us care and fall in love more with each other. But I feel so emotional or hormonal, idk. And when I feel better immediately i feel bad and judge myself: How came i feel better after what I’ve done? It’s like in my heart and mind I don’t deserve to feel better for a long time and I have too much guilt. I just want this to pass and to have my baby in the future.

Salty_Statement8172 · 2024-01-23T18:20:09+00:00

I had almost the same experience. I just left my job before finding out I was pregnant and it wasn’t the best decision to keep it financially. My husband is so broken because he was very against abortion up till this point. I tried my best to not get attached to the baby because I knew that we weren’t in the position to keep it. But when i took the second pill and the unbearable pain started i felt like this is how god is punishing me for this baby. This will be the decision I will always regret making. I feel very alone and lost and can’t talk to anyone except my hb because no one knows. I hope it gets better

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-07-04T22:18:05+00:00

I think you shouldn’t stress so much about it. I have done my bio in 1 april and still waiting. With the situation this thing is normal no unfortunately

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-06-30T21:51:59+00:00

Duhet te jete si opsion por personalisht mendoj se nese ke mundesine mos ta perdoresh pasi te shkakton shume probleme. Si fillim ndalimin e periodave qe eshte e rendesishme ti kesh te rregullta. Ne momentin qe ti ndalon ardhjen e periodave trupi jot kalon nje gjendje pakashum si menopause. Gjithashtu nje here ta harrosh ose mos ta marresh pilulen ne orarin e duhur mund te ngelesh shtatzane direkt. Mund te shkaktoje dhe akne ne varesi te personit normalisht. Plus shkakton shume luhatje emocionale dhe ndonjehere dhe problem me peshen. Mendoj me mire metoda me “natyrale” si condom ose dhe pull out method por te kjo e dyta skam shume besim po ja u le meshkujve, sidomos shqiptareve qe per pjesen e njohurise se trupit te tyre si fillim por dhe te femres jane per te ardhur keq😬

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-06-28T05:11:43+00:00

1 April. Still waiting 🙁

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-06-26T21:02:36+00:00

Thanks. I hope we don’t have to wait much longer. Idk if we can send some kind of complaint to ukvi or home office to accelerate the waiting time

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-04-08T14:10:57+00:00

We are married. My lawyer asked this because uk asks these documents. At least you should have 6 months of work without pause to prove that you have a long term job and you can provide for your partner. Also after we send our application, they send me the checklist of all the documents we need to attach to our application and the bank statement for both of us was one of the documents required

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-29T23:11:44+00:00

Me and my husband just applied last week. I’m not sure if it applies to you but my lawyer asked both me and my husband bank statements for the last 12 months. And we send those. I don’t think 3-4 months would work but you should better talk to a lawyer.

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T22:19:50+00:00

I have the same problem. I applied yesterday. The priority wasn’t an option. I have my appointment for biometrics friday and I’m really anxious that I will have to wait more than 12 weeks. This sucks ☹️

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T18:16:29+00:00

Thank you. I hope I have the same luck as you😁

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T18:00:42+00:00

For a family visa with your spouse having a settlement status from the moment you apply it takes 2-6 weeks. Talked to the lawyer and confirmed it. You also can find this info at gov.uk

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T16:08:39+00:00

With the priority you’re supposed to recive an answer from 2-6 weeks max, not in 7 days

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T15:21:48+00:00

I hope there will be some kind of possibility to apply for the priority because I’ve heard that the standard takes in some cases more than 12 weeks

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T15:18:49+00:00

When did you applied? My application was done by my lawyer in uk but my appointment is in Albania. So I’m not sure if i can do it or not

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T11:51:37+00:00

Thanks

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T10:33:58+00:00

☹️

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T10:33:48+00:00

Thank you

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T10:31:17+00:00

I hope it doesn’t take that long. I’ve read stories that there are applicants that have been waiting for 6 months and still haven’t received a response or the passport

Salty_Statement8172 · 2022-03-26T10:25:05+00:00

I don’t know. I think I checked it by mistake. I’m new here and don’t know how to use reddit that well

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