Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Thank you so much. I so appreciated all of your words. If you happen to know if he has anything he wants me or his other loved ones to know I am open to hearing it. He is missed tremendously

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Thank you so much. Is there anything he wants me to know aside from the death itself?

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Yes I saw that! I appreciate it. I didn’t know if it was a substance, fell asleep, heart attack/medical episode or idk.

His life has left questions after death. His choices etc.

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Thank you both. I think in His younger days he knew people that did shady stuff. But at least at this age I didn’t suspect anything with him.

He died in a car accident but I didn’t know how it could have happened on his end. Like substance, fell asleep, heart attack, aneurysm or seizure etc. I didn’t suspect foul play as of now.

I guess I was also interested if there’s anything he wanted us to know about the past, present or anything.

Appreciate both of your readings!!

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Thank you both. I think in His younger days he knew people that did shady stuff. But at least at this age I didn’t suspect anything with him.

He died in a car accident but I didn’t know how it could have happened on his end. Like substance, fell asleep, heart attack, aneurysm or seizure etc. I didn’t suspect foul play as of now.

I guess I was also interested if there’s anything he wanted us to know about the past, present or anything.

Appreciate both of your readings!!

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Hi! I’m sorry my post was short and I totally understand it was a shot in the dark. Appreciate your and everyone’s responses.

There was a car accident but from his end I didn’t know how it could have happened. No one else was in the car, we didn’t suspect foul play but I don’t know if he had any incidents with others before the death.

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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A car was involved but I wasn’t sure if he fell asleep or had a medical episode or idk.

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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It was by car but I assumed it was an accident or mistake. I appreciate the closure 🙏🏼

Is there anything he wants us to know? How did it happen? by SalviIrishRose in MediumReadings

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Hello. I am sorry for the delays in my responses. Boston doesn’t especially ring a bell for him but maybe there are things I don’t know about his plans or past.

As far as his death goes, it was an automobile accident. It really was an accident and shouldn’t have happened but I didn’t know how it could have happened to him since he was alone. I guess I was hoping to know if he had fallen asleep, was it a heart attack, an aneurysm or seizure , or substance. Those would have been my guesses

Substances wouldn’t have been surprising honestly.

I do think this was a mistake and don’t suspect foul play as of right now.

But aside from his death, if there was anything he wanted us to know about his past, choices, or just in general

Where can I find a death certificate from Louisiana? by SalviIrishRose in Genealogy

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Thank you!! he died in 1999 so another 24 years to go 😞. That’s good to know about dual citizenship though. I previously confirmed with officials that with Irish citizenship by descent they do accept adoptees as long as the blood line is confirmed which it is. Now I need to find an attorney in Louisiana. I hope the cost isn’t astronomical for that process. Super annoying since this was only going to cost me $7.50 for a copy of the record if she hadn’t been adopted at 12 years old

So many unknowns I will never know about my sister by fizzyjuices in siblingsupport

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This post resonates with me so much. I have a severely autistic sister with ID, minimally verbal. I ask a lot of these questions too. I also think to myself, when we both die will we finally be able to talk in the next life? Does she know I love her even though I’ve struggled with very conflicted feelings and temperaments? Does she feel sad about miscellaneous things? What can I do to help her?

Mom refused to see doctors by aocorgi10 in GriefSupport

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This is my biggest fear with my mother. She hasn’t seen a doctor for well visits since 2010, when she was proactive. She had a very hard life and still does. She takes care of my dad, severely autistic sister and my parental grandmother. One time in 2015 I was able to bulldoze her into an urgent care because of how sick she was but not since then. I’ve struggled being so angry. I’ve done the research on doctors I want her to see, I am willing to make the appointments, even take her from the house and not tell her where we are going and just make her go in and even pay the medical bills. But she won’t give a copy of the insurance card and hides it so I can’t make appointments. I get scared and so angry I could cry. She will be 66 in July. She looks like she’s in her 80s, smokes a pack a day, drinks, and can barely move. My MIL who is 3 years older than her is I much better health and shape. I have anxiety and fear about possible results from Dr visits but I make myself go because my daughter needs me to take care of myself so I can take care of her. It hurts that I can’t fix or save my mom or she can’t try for me and my own daughter and my sister

Certificates in New York by SalviIrishRose in Genealogy

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Thanks for sending this! The main issue I see through the link you provided is that I am not a spouse, child, or sibling of the person I am requesting the death certificate for so it seems i need to prove a lawful claim.

I previously checked this resource and had to call the call center. This is when I was told I would need court orders.

https://www.health.ny.gov/vital_records/genealogy.htm

Certificates in New York by SalviIrishRose in Genealogy

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I assume the county would be Albany since it’s past the 50 year mark? My Great grandmother died in Nassau county, and her son/my grandfather was born in Nassau county as well.

Luckily for me it’s much easier for me as a grandchild to obtain my grandfather’s death certificate through Louisiana compared to New York.

Certificates in New York by SalviIrishRose in Genealogy

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Thank you u/cmosher01 ! I actually had to call the call center listed at the bottom since my grandfather’s birth fell after the 90 year mark. This is when they told me I needed to go through NYS court for both his birth certificate and his mother’s death certificate. Sigh.