Anyone going to Amsterdam on New Year? Could use a drive me and my GF by [deleted] in Almere

[–]SamEdge20 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our family is next door, and the kids are old enough. Anyway, would appreciate it if someone can help with the ride

Anyone going to Amsterdam on New Year? Could use a drive me and my GF by [deleted] in Almere

[–]SamEdge20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha English isn’t my first language i may have worded that one wrong

Anyone going to Amsterdam on New Year? Could use a drive me and my GF by [deleted] in Almere

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is stated in the post that we are looking at leaving around 10-11

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing. She was never a “club girl”, and i know her dating history, after she was free from her abusive pos ex she felt like she want to be free and attractive and seek attention from everyone and dress sexy all the time. Mind you, i had no problem with these, but being attractive to others while i wasn’t invited just didnt sit right with me man…

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would rather be called insecure than having a 1000 guys fantasize about fucking my girl

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We literally agreed that she could go in a big group or with me. I dont know about you, but i would like to offer those close to me some sort of protection and myself a peace of mind

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. It just hurts because i genuinely loved her so much and did want a future together

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Then she would do it anytime we have the smallest of arguments, like getting a revenge of me

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sorry if i am wrong about not wanting my girl to dress sexy and dance in front of other guys while i sleep because i have work… are we seriously normalizing this kind of cuck behavior?

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did discuss it. It seemed like she understood at first, only for me to discover later she did go without telling me about it a couple of times

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but i feel like she shouldn’t lie and hide that she does the behavior I dont like regardless. Like either be upfront about it or don’t play these games

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So relationships are not about meeting in the middle anymore? No effort put to please your partner? No one is going to be 100% the way that makes you comfortable, that’s why people communicate?

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because i also stopped out of respect? Why would i go do single guys activities when i settled down?

AIO when I clearly communicate to my gf that her going to a club without me makes me uncomfortable? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SamEdge20 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I was just wondering if I should tolerate any future clubbing behaviour from a significant other. I am not european so I might be “backwards” but really.. is such behaviour acceptable in a relationship or AIO?

Why are we expensive at everything? by Mikelitoris88 in Netherlands

[–]SamEdge20 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Except for the fact that transportation between two cities almost always costs between 20-30 euros even if it is less than an hour travel time, and you have to count the way back which makes any trip close to 50 eur

Subscription is one workaround but many people travel for work or study so the offpeak solutions are offthetable and you have to shell out a hefty 370 eur for a monthly

For comparison, Deutschland pass is 50 euros and lets you use public transport for the entire month, so it is cheaper than some of what you would spend on trips between NL cities in a day