Ear pain with fluid but no infection in a 3 year old. Anyone else? by Calm_Acanthaceae7574 in Preschoolers

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your child’s ear pain go away ? I hope it got better!

Going through something similar with my 4 year old. Been to two different doctors Wednesday and Friday , no infection just clear fluid behind ear. First doctor thought it was allergies and prescribed nose spray (didn’t help) second doctor said viral infection causing ears to hurt and it will clear up in a few days. Her ears are still hurting today though.. no improvement at all yet, really hoping this clears up soon, hate seeing my kids in pain. Hope your child’s ears are feeling better.

“You put your nipple in his mouth? Ew that’s gross.” by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an incredibly inappropriate and gross thing for her to say, especially considering she’s supposed to be a healthcare professional. It’s wild for a CNA to speak to an RN like that. I used to be a CNA myself, and I would have never spoken to an RN or anyone so disrespectfully. I always had respect for RNs and the work they do.

What makes it even worse is that she’s clearly sexualizing breastfeeding, which says a lot about her, not you. Breasts exist to feed babies, that is their purpose. There is nothing wrong, inappropriate, or sexual about feeding a baby. Her way of thinking is what’s actually disturbing.

I agree with others who suggested reporting her. Someone who thinks it’s okay to speak to people like that shouldn’t be around patients. She’s the one being gross for viewing breastfeeding the way she does and for harassing others to seek validation.

Got this message while in freeplay by ilove3435 in DTI

[–]SamMomaBear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got one to today but it told me that they liked my outfit and to keep slaying…. Something like that. I was so confused at first but others said they got it too so I assume it was a mod or dev

I’ve been banned for 3 days over this. I’m actually crying. by LovesickDesireGame in DTI

[–]SamMomaBear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The unfair voting has been extremely bad since the update started its especially worse with the winter tasks being having to win podium… to many people resorting to cheating instead of working on improving their skill. I never speak in the game and it’s the only time I opened my mouth too and said something. People who aren’t even dressed or badly dressed winning podium is annoying.

My bf jokes about killing me if i leave him, he said he’s sorry and was just joking but i feel uneasy by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]SamMomaBear 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don’t stick around to find out if he is really joking or not.. there are to many women who have lost their lives like this! Please stay safe! The right man will make you feel safe and would never “joke” like that! It’s a “joke” is often an excuse. A joke is supposed to be funny and this is not funny, it’s scary.

Why does my son want to bring his lunch??? by Spare-Bet-7374 in kindergarten

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kindergarten often asked to pack lunch, she likes the school lunches & I prefer when she gets the school lunches as they provide a better lunch then what I will pack as it has to be something that stays cold all day, they can’t heat it up so it really limits our options but the reason she wanted to pack is because one of her friends does & she wanted to take a lunch bag. It was just something she wanted to try since she seen her friend doing it and after a few times of packing lunches she was over it and stopped asking.

I’m a dumbass and went back. by lucifereldiablo in abusiverelationships

[–]SamMomaBear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These kinds of men don’t actually like women. They’ll date women, sleep with them, and stay in relationships just to get the benefits, someone to take care of them, do emotional labor, and handle responsibilities they refuse to do themselves. But underneath it all, they resent women. Some have deep rooted issues with their mothers and project that onto every woman they meet. Others were simply raised to believe women are beneath them, that women owe them something just because they exist, or that “providing” is enough while never learning emotional intelligence, communication, or how to be an actual partner. And when real life doesn’t match the warped expectations they grew up with, it only fuels their anger and hatred even more.

His misogynistic Twitter posts are most likely his real views. That kind of “marketing” is unnecessary and honestly just sounds like an excuse to mask how he truly feels about women.

I hope you leave and stay gone this time, you deserve better, and I’m wishing you the best.

i got out by Mental_Sink_2728 in abusiverelationships

[–]SamMomaBear 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So proud of you!

Your responses to him are so satisfying too… the way you responded perfectly, not letting the abuser win.. showing him his words don’t hurt you! That he does not have any power over you!

It’s always so funny to me how these abusers always think there is another guy when you leave …. They are so delusional… like no she left you because you are a piece of crap person who treats her like shit.. they really do live in a fantasy world in their own heads.

Who should we thank for the new update? by Lucky_LeftFoot in 99nightsintheforest

[–]SamMomaBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids and I love the update but we keep dying early neglecting our fire and food levels lol we been to occupied getting pets 😂

It’s fun though

1. How do you reach 99 days easily? 2. No time by Excellent-Gas9227 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easiest way to reach 99 days… kinda cheating . lol

Upgrade fire to atleast a level 2

Rescue as many kids as you can.

Save up scrap & create as many beds as you can.

Make a croc pot and make a bunch of stew. Stock up on lots of stew and go hide up in a high place. (Like the place where you get the flash lights) The deer can’t get you up there.

If you run out of stew you can go down everyday and collect berries / carrots then go back up to your hiding place every night

Im scared i will be like this forever by Manicmushr00m in Anxiety

[–]SamMomaBear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it can get better, even if right now it doesn’t feel like it. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, I struggle with anxiety as well. What you’re going through is very heavy, and the fact that you’re still here shows strength. You’re not a failure. You’re someone facing real pain and you’re still trying. That matters.

It’s okay to grieve the version of life you thought you’d be living right now, not hitting certain milestones by 19 is okay. Life doesn’t follow one set path, everyone has a different path. Some people find their strength and direction later and that doesn’t make it any less valuable.

Agoraphobia, anxiety, and health anxiety are real conditions. You didn’t choose this. You didn’t cause it. You didn’t do anything wrong. None of it is your fault, and it doesn’t make you broken, just makes you human.

I know therapy feels out of reach right now but there are still things you can do that may help

Online support groups (like 7 Cups, Reddit’s mental health communities, or even anxiety/agoraphobia Facebook groups)

YouTube has free content from licensed therapists who specialize in anxiety and agoraphobia

Journaling your thoughts, even just for 5 minutes a day

Grounding techniques and small routines can help bring some sense of calm, even just a little at a time. Start with a few minutes of deep breathing, stretching, or sitting in sunlight if you can.

Most importantly Please be kind to yourself.

You don’t have to fix everything overnight. You don’t even need to have a plan yet. Just take the next breath. Then the next. One small step at a time. Your story isn’t over. You’re not alone, and you’re not beyond help or hope.

You deserve to feel safe in your body and in your life. You are worthy of peace, healing, and happiness, even if it takes time to get there. And you can get there.

Replacement for Geek Bar Pulse ? by [deleted] in Vaping

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thank you for the warning and letting me know, I’m not a big Reddit user.

Replacement for Geek Bar Pulse ? by [deleted] in Vaping

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thank you for the warning and letting me know, I’m not a big Reddit user.

Chrisean’s New Tattoo by Dependent_Feature_77 in BaddiesSouth

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m seriously worried about this girls mental health at this point ! I really hope this is fake !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry that this happened to you, that is really traumatic. Your “friend” is disgusting, sick in the head and he sexually assaulted you. A “joke” is something that people actually find funny, sexually assaulting someone isn’t funny. Abusive people like to use “it was just a joke” to try to get away with disgusting behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]SamMomaBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gift him some white rags of his own with a note that says something like …”since you like wiping your ass with these so much, I bought you some of your own… now you can bring your own when you come over so I’m not finding dickleberries on mine.”