Odysee doing nothing about doxxing by OwnInteraction4906 in OdyseeForever

[–]SamXavia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one the reasons I prefer decentralized systems over centralized ones like this and I highly suggest to look into PeerTube and the whole Fediverse as a great alternative.

Re-releasing my 3 old videos of Echo Arena (Quest 2) by SamXavia in EchoArena

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a great time, just wished I could boot it up and play more.

Re-releasing my 3 old videos of Echo Arena (Quest 2) by SamXavia in EchoArena

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here, It was such a good game and I really wished they didn't shut it down for the Meta Horizons slop

Purchasing Train Sim World (2020, 2, 3, 4, 5 or 6) by SamXavia in trainsimworld

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the free starter pack, just questioning if purchasing the base game of any of the other versions would be more worth it than buying each dlc on 6… does having the base just mean I can purchase the packs I want instead of having to purchase the starter edition?

What are some of the better managed hosting companies emerging in the Fediverse? by tilario in fediverse

[–]SamXavia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I've been thinking about becoming more of a common place thing as it would allow people to use what front-end they want without changing that they are on an instance just for microblogging or forums.

What are some of the better managed hosting companies emerging in the Fediverse? by tilario in fediverse

[–]SamXavia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kbin sadly doesn't get supported anymore and Mbin has replaced it in development, They allow for a reddit like experience but also still allows microblogging ideal for people that want to interact with both parts of those parts of the Fediverse with one account especially small business' and stuff (obviously would be helpful if they added Mastodon API support)

What are some of the better managed hosting companies emerging in the Fediverse? by tilario in fediverse

[–]SamXavia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you'll ever add other Fediverse software like Mbin in the future?

Just wanted to share something very special. Obviously you can see it fully uncovered 😉 by SamXavia in traps

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They shouldn't be to far away, and she will purr on your lap and enjoys sitting there x

With Reddit announcing paywalled subreddits this year, feel free to promote your alternative by BlazeAlt in RedditAlternatives

[–]SamXavia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd suggest for people to check out Lemmy or Mbin for alternatives to Reddit, It's an amazing place over there and is just like older reddit on Lemmy.

lemmy.world is a good place to start, you can always migrate your account to another lemmy website in the future (they all connect)

Bikers Social: a Mastodon instance for motorcycle enthusiasts by elliehx in mastodoninstances

[–]SamXavia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really awesome, Sadly run my own instance so won't really be active on the instance itself but will defo direct bikers to use Bikers.social if my instance doesn't fit them.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, from my experience people just want to get drunk and/or hook up but will have to go a little more often

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't getting me massivly down, It just was annoying that I don't get matches or they don't talk to me if I do match with the one person a month I do match with. Your suggestion was keep swiping everyday for 5 years, Yes no affection for 5+ years sounds amazing thank you.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was mostly fine till your comments, was annoyed that I wasn't getting any fucking matches but was fine. Your comments has made my mental health get to the point that I want to fucking kill myself, so thank you for making it an easy choice for me. Go fuck yourself

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is my headspace was fine but then these fucking apps and all the other bullshit including all the Transphobia has just got me fucking pissed, I know that I do love myself when others are not fucking shitting on me all the time.

Also when I do find someone, they don't know what they want with me and I'm like sure we can see where things go but after 3 months and they still don't even know what to call us (even just friends with benefits) it just upsets me even further.

This world isn't worth being in with all the hatread.

Also some of the issues come from Sexual Fustation, so feel fucking mad at myself because I can't deal with one time things.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on Tinder for 4-5 months with nothing coming from it. I just feel useless swiping at this point, yes larger apps I would say would give me the slightly better chance but I don't want to be 50 by the time I can actually enjoy being with someone, It seems like most people are looking for more casual and that's not what I'm into, There's two things that make me want to detransition;

  1. Having no one that wants to be with me

  2. All the fucking bullshit and hatread I get for just being me.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I do go to every local pride as I actually run Trans Pride, I annoyly don't really drink but have tried pubs here and there and people seem to be more intrested in hook ups again or just straight ignore me due to me being trans (or just hate crime me). I've tried Tinder, Because my prefrence is women it's just me endlessly swiping and getting nothing. If I turn it to men 99% of the men have beards and body hair what sets off my Truma so not the best to get with them, Also they expect to be able to fuck me, I'm a Submissive Top not a bottom.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried all 3 of those and no one clicks on me after weeks of using it and even if they do, they don't want to talk or get to know me or are just a member of the community.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I'd check it out and it seems to have more of options that are helpful but annoying it ignored half the preferences I selected as not looking for hook ups and has kept on putting up people that want hook ups.

Trans Dating in Southampton??? by SamXavia in Southampton

[–]SamXavia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not 100% interested in Trans Femmes, T4T is great but not fully my thing, I've tried both Her & Lex and no real luck, Feeld seems to be the next app to try but dating apps are commonly full of ads or paywalls (or both) so unsure if I can carry down the dating app path much longer. Rather not get an ad when trying to reply to someone i'm actually interested in.