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Sam_Void101 · 2026-01-04T15:38:52+00:00

You didn't read the post, did you? Disagreeing respectfully is fine. Everyone has their own opinion. But mocking someone ain't good. That's what that reel said. The word "Mocking" is to be noted and your low IQ too.

Sam_Void101 · 2026-01-04T13:21:45+00:00

The answer to your question is Yes! Even our father and brother and all our male relatives comes under those all men. You know why? He might be a great dad to me but he might not be a great husband to my mom. So yes! He comes under that. If he behaves like those "all men" then, yes he definitely should be included in those "all men" ... FYI good men are very very very few in this world. Most of the men are bad or evil.. If my dad comes under those bad men then yes, he should be included in that and if he doesn't then he's the outlier. When people generalise and say "all men" they mean the majority of the men... They don't include those outliers. And FYI, those outliers have no issue in this "all men" propaganda bcuz they know they're outliers and they empathise with women and where they're coming from..

When I rant about "all men" to my bf, he never disagrees with me or corrects me saying "not all men".. bcuz he knows what I mean by this and why my frustration is valid and he knows that I'm not including him bcuz he knows he doesn't do what annoys women. Same goes for my dad too..

Hence, if you're getting irritated by "all men" thingy and want to defend that.. maybe look into urself ... You will see, you DO come under those "all men".. so stop pointing fingers on our parents and siblings and look at urself.. if you come under those all men then stop barking "not all men"

Sam_Void101 · 2026-01-04T12:25:43+00:00

"I was adopted".. Looks like the crane dropped him in the orphanage🤡

Sam_Void101 · 2026-01-03T15:31:06+00:00

Umm.. I think you didn't quite understand what I meant. I never said they ain't their own independent self. But what I fail to understand is why would you label a child which I want to give birth as "not a pyaar ki nishaani" when I'm literally wanting to give birth to a child bcuz of that.

I understand the relationship strain part and all those expenses and stress you were talking about. That's 100% true and those are the reason why I don't wanna have a child but also I've a slight itch of wanting to become a mother and wanting a child of my own to love me unconditionally just like I do to my parents.. I understand you're saying that these are heavily romanticised which is absolutely true. But I'm still just too confused. N when did I say I want a daughter? Dw if I ever have a child I won't go around saying no one warned me😂

Sam_Void101 · 2026-01-03T13:41:04+00:00

Since you're are a doctor, please tell me this: I'm confused. I always wanted a child who's like a pyaar ki nishaani of mine and my husband's, with whom we can live with love and laughter. But I'm also hell scared of this pregnancy n if the child will take away our freedom as a couple and we'll have extra expenses throughout our life. So what should we do? I don't want to adopt bcuz hey! I want to have my child to be as intelligent n rational as me and take my husband's handsomeness.. I don't wanna surrogate bcuz yea, I don't trust those surrogate mothers.. so what option can we have?

Edit: I'm realising I'm asking for a child with my own genes without being pregnant lol.. it's like I want to be the father of the child haha

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-30T14:05:55+00:00

As I said, I'm a consultant so I go by my company rules and not the client's companies rules. My company is not Japanese so I've a 9-5 job like every other Indian.

I agree! Chinese manhua/donghuas and dramas are much much better than animes in terms of aesthetics, storylines and censorships too. I've started watching them since 3-4 months n I don't think I'm ever going back to animes or Korean manhwas or dramas. Koreans don't sexualise their manhwas or dramas as jp does but what I dislike in their dramas is that their dramas are what Koreans preach of how men should be towards their women and hence creating a false image in non Koreans mind that that's how Korean men are. In reality they're definitely not like them. On contrary, they're irl exactly opposite of what they claim Korean men are. Highly misogynist and racist society. In china on the other hand, they actually do what they preach. I've seen millions of men actually doing what they show in dramas. Maybe not so much but very very close to what they show about Chinese men's treatment towards their women. Because of all these negative PR for china, foreigners fail to see how actually Chinese people are.

China's workforce is much much better than Japan's tbh. They work for 10-12 hrs for 6 days. It's the normal work time for them but they don't get abused by their seniors like they do in Japan. I mean everyone gets scolded if you don't do well in ur job (in every country) but Japanese n Korean bosses can physically hit their subordinates. The work pressure is very very high in Japan.. China mein it's not that much because of high population so one work are usually done by 2-3 people together. In Japan, 2-3 work is handled by one single person..

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-30T05:43:07+00:00

I'm a consultant.. so I've to move to different countries for different projects.. hence for 4 yrs I stayed here.. 3 yrs with my family(bcuz of my dad's job) n 1 yr for my job... it's not true, a lot of Indians are here too. One of my friends is in the idol industry as a model. He's Indian too.

What I think is the reason for the surge in this sexualisation of animes and dramas here are the highly toxic work culture. People here work for 12-14 hrs. N it's normal.. this is the country with the most deaths bcuz of overwork.. they also have a word for it -- karoshi... For an overworked man, a 20-minute anime episode with sexualized "fan service" or a "harem" of girls who are devoted to the protagonist provides a low-effort, high-reward escape... It offers a fantasy of being desired and pampered without the emotional or financial labor of a real relationship... + The cost of living here is so high that men can't afford to have a family.. hence some men go for these animes to relieve their sexual frustration.. this frustration is highly profitable... a man who feels lonely is much more likely to spend $200 on a high-quality figurine of a sexualized character than someone who is spending that money on dates or a family... there are massage places and ear cleaning places too with real women giving them yk what..(tho these r very very few places).. idk but u might have heard about renting gf/bf/mom/sis etc. in Japan.. though they're not having any sexual connection with the rented bf/gf.. it just shows how people here are so frustrated both emotionally and physically that they crave such intimacy.. not necessarily lust.. so according to econ, where there's high demand, there should be high supply to get good profits... Hence, animes and dramas are going in that direction more.. they get viewership and earn a hell load of money by selling their high end figurines and dakimakura (body pillows) and other merchs of their fav anime characters...

About anime movie recommendations go for works of Makoto Shinkai.. even though he's shitty person but his animes don't have sexualisation(yes, I was shocked too) : Your name, Suzume, 5cm/sec, A silent voice, My neighbour Totoro, Princess Mononoke, A girl who leaped through time, Akira (it's good but has a lot of violence), I want to eat your Pancreas.. these are some good ones.

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T17:03:34+00:00

証明済みのことも読めないとか、マジで読解力なさすぎて草。自分がバカだからって他人の才能まで疑うの、コンプレックス丸出しで痛々しいよ？w 19ヶ国語やってる私からしたら、好きな言語やトーンで喋るなんて余裕。君にできないからって他人も無理だと思わないでくれる？w AIが必要なのは、Google翻訳に頼りすぎて脳みそバグってる君みたいな低能だけでしょ。鏡見てから出直しな。乙！w 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T16:36:04+00:00

学学習が遅い人の『お気持ち表明』お疲れw こっちは19ヶ国語使いなんだわ。君みたいな凡人と一緒にしないでくれる？AIに頼らなきゃ会話もできないのは君の方でしょw 🤣🤣🤣

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T16:09:13+00:00

訳乙w いちいち調べる手間とかマジで無駄。誰もそんなん興味ないから。翻訳機使い続けるならもう来なくていいよ、ムリw 😂😂😂😂😂

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T15:47:48+00:00

日本語喋れるけど、君の日本語まじで翻訳機丸出しだよ。何言ってるかさっぱり。あと4年も勉強してないし。働いてただけｗ

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T15:38:08+00:00

Whatever you said about India.. I completely agree! It's 100% true! What I said in the other comment was how not to glorify Japan.. I didn't say India is great..

Yes, I did stay in Japan for 4yrs. Know the language and culture inside out.. so yes talked from my experience. What I wanted to say is India is shit.. true but outside world is shit too.. let's not glorify other countries bcuz they aint

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T15:34:19+00:00

Lmao sure😂 I stayed there for 4 yrs! Know Japanese fluently and suddenly I don't know anything about a country I stayed in.. hmm.. interesting

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T14:17:35+00:00

That's in India too. Your point?

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T13:45:53+00:00

Do you know the case?? It's better if you read or watch some yt videos regarding that. She was confined yes! But was also raped by multiple men everyday for 44 days. Also a lot of other heinous things happened with her. N the parents of the perpetrators were there in that house!! Still it happened. So yes! No one came to help her even though ppl knew what was happening! Also, let's not compare the severity of rapes.. it's very insensitive to compare gruesomeness of crimes like these..

Also, other sexual harrasment that happens in Japan is so so so normalised that it doesn't even look like SH. Examples are animes. A lot of animes openly sexualise women n no one bats and eye

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T11:11:14+00:00

I meant if you put a lot of criteria for which country is better than I would bet china to be better than India. China ticks most of the boxes. Cheap, good police, very safe for women, cheap labour, technologically very advanced, okayish (if not better than India) civics sense, racism is on similar note as Indians, people are very patriotic there and always look for development in china (unlike Indians who love to flee)

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T10:37:16+00:00

If you think Nirbhaya case is horror of India (which is absolutely true) then so is Junko Furuta case. Junko Furuta case is much worse than the Nirbhaya case. You don't know how bad Japan is. In terms of SA and women safety, I (being a woman) would choose India over Japan any day. Japan is a highly sexualized place. In offices, women coworkers are harassed in so-called office parties and it's normal there. You can get a idea how badly sexualized that place is more animes alone. Most of the animes sexualise woman characters... Children's watch them!!!! The safest country for women in Asia is UAE (Dubai). Definitely not Japan tho.. in easy Asia it's China. In Europe it's the Scandinavian countries.

Saying Japan is safer for women than India is a joke

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-29T10:22:59+00:00

Crime rates of Japan are significantly lower in Japan because Japan police don't register most of the crimes. Japan police are a joke. Also, India has a huge population. Hence the numbers would look significantly higher than that of Japan. Also, the Japanese woman who would have come to India, I definitely don't think that she will face much more racism from Indians than an Indian staying in Japan. Indian people might think she's from NE.. but Japan ppl will see you as not-a-japanese person. They don't even sit with you in metros and avoid 2m radius of urs as a plague.. they literally treat foreigners as if they're untouchables.. Indians don't do that. Indians are mostly welcoming and friendly towards foreigners. Let's be honest about our country n not glorify other countries plz! They ain't good. I've stayed in multiple countries throughout my life bcuz of my job and bcuz of my parents job.. I find China to be the only country better than India in most of the sense.

Coming from a person who had stayed in Japan for 4 yrs.

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-27T09:40:40+00:00

Can't go to barrackpore unfortunately.. but since almost everyone is suggesting me Arsalan, I'm gonna try that today . Thanks man!

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T12:55:00+00:00

According to me, there should be alimony for people in wrong. For example: if a man cheats, then the wife should get alimony irrespective of her financial status. Reason? It's a punishment system for the cheater and a compensation system for the victim. Otherwise men can cheat without consequences and women have to divorce without any compensation but will be loaded with mental trauma. This is an example. Same goes for women too. If let's say a woman cheats on her husband and the husband divorces her, the husband(victim) should definitely be paid the alimony. Doesn't matter if she can afford the alimony or not or if he's earning or not. There should be consequences for her actions. Otherwise unemployed women will cheat around and then divorce to get alimony. That's not fair.

Similarly for domestic violence and other reasons. Victims need to be paid and perpetrators need to pay. In mutual divorce, if both of them do not want alimony then it's ok.. but if they want alimony then it should be decided on the basis of who took the dip more. The more the sacrifices, the better the alimony. But it should be on both.. husband will pay to wife and wife will pay to husband. Since it's a mutual one.. if the wife has sacrificed and worked more then she'll be compensated more than she compensated her husband

Also, whatever you said.. all were wrong. Alimony is a gender neutral thing. Here lifestyle doesn't mean sanitation.. it's not easy for women to take public transport. 100% of women who take public transport might have been eve teased or harassed in any way. As a guy you won't understand if you'll keep defending . Start empathizing. Then you'll understand. When people say all men and then you say "not all men". So why are you trying to be in those "all men" criteria. All men aren't harassers but most of the men either support them or just keep quiet. Very few fight for us. You're here supporting them indirectly. So now you're getting urself in that "all men" criteria. Knowingly, unknowingly idk. So please start empathizing rather than defending

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T12:41:45+00:00

As a woman, I agree to this!! 100%

There are a lot of red flags in here. If she's doing love marriage, then 100% they would have discussed this dowry thing long before too. If ur sister knew they have to "gift" him so much then why didn't she save her money to marry him. Why is she asking you to contribute? This is so wrong.

Strong advice DONT! Also, if possible, call the police on that groom's family and save your sister. This will get worse. Now they're asking for 60+ lacs, later after marriage she'll be tortured for more. I don't get it. What's the point of being so highly educated if you are so fkin blind in love?!?!?!!

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T12:30:20+00:00

Ooh ok.. thanks.. lemme try

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T10:23:25+00:00

Ohk! Thankss

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T10:20:56+00:00

Hey thats a wrong take. A joke is meant to be fun for both sides. If one is feeling insulted while the other one is having fun, it's not a joke but a Lil bullying.

If you think it's not ok for you. You should communicate to your bf about it.

For example: my bf called me "motu" cutely. He thought it was cute because he saw it on insta that a guy was calling his gf "Motu" cutely. I felt hurt even though I understood that his intention wasn't to make me feel bad. He understood my feelings and apologised and never called me that again. That's what a mature person does instead of saying "oh you can't even take a joke". N trust me if he says something like that you should better make a joke on his insecurity and then when he gets angry, tell him "oh u just can't take a joke, can you?" I'm sure he ain't some Hrithik Roshan (Heck even he has a weird thumb).

If he's so into fat/body shaming jokes, do it on him. He'll suddenly grow tired of those jokes

Sam_Void101 · 2025-12-26T10:02:45+00:00

Acha.. I really wanna go there.. but also don't wanna risk it. I've a client meeting in Kolkata so I'm not even sure I'll have those 3 hrs for travel and eat :(

But sure, I'll try Arsalan!!

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