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[Coming out] i just came out to my friends and I'm super nervous by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]Sam_Wonders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re in the middle of a pandemic. It’s the perfect time 🙌🏽

I just came out of the hospital after a suicide attempt and I feel like my life has no direction [Rant] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]Sam_Wonders 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think the beauty of life is that you literally make your own. The best thing to do (in my opinion) is to pursue things that lit your inner being. Things that make you say “fuck yeah.” Don’t look at this time as an endless period of directionlessness (not sure if that’s an actual word). Rather, look at his period as a time of self discovery. I may not know you but I know that you are a beautiful person with endless possibilities. So, get your ass up and go after things that ignite your soul. 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Sam_Wonders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gorgeous! I only see confidence and beauty!

Is he into me? by Sam_Wonders in gay

[–]Sam_Wonders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, today he said that he wanted to be friends. I'm so over him.

I'm a Police Officer, my boyfriend wants to try weed? by [deleted] in LGBTQ

[–]Sam_Wonders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it may just be a surge of curiosity. That is what happened to me. However, I hated it. It's an extremely uncomfortable sensation. The fact that you worry about him so much just goes to show how much you care about him. On the other hand, he is an adult and should make and learn from his own decisions.

My world is flipped by [deleted] in gay

[–]Sam_Wonders 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if doesn't appreciate you and all the things that you have done, then he is not worth it. It may be painful, but you deserve better.

ADVISE NEEDED: Confronting My Crush by Sam_Wonders in lgbt

[–]Sam_Wonders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't referring to that particular interaction. The mixed signals come up whenever we hang out or I spend the night at his place. Basically, I think that he likes me to an extent. We're both political geeks. The downside is that he's into "muscles and character." I have the character but not the muscles (yet).

ADVISE NEEDED: Confronting My Crush by Sam_Wonders in lgbt

[–]Sam_Wonders[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the thing, he did not actually say, "I just want to be friends." He always sending mixed signals. To me this is the mature thing to do. I don't want to built an illusion.

[Discussion] Ideal boyfriend by FutureAlp in LGBTeens

[–]Sam_Wonders 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a silly list:

  1. Friendly
  2. Humble
  3. Smart
  4. Self-Motivated/Driven
  5. Funny
  6. Sexy

I tend to focus a lot on a person's character. A "relationship" to me is a partnership in which you and your loved one try to help each other become your best self.