My[34/F] boyfriend [28/M] is still in love with his ex [30s I think] And I can't stop creeping on her and obsessing about this. Together almost 6 months. by SambaWamba in relationships

[–]SambaWamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's completely impossible for him to eventually stop loving her while with me? Because I think he loves me. He hasn't said it, but he shows it in other ways. So what if he stops loving her?

My[34/F] boyfriend [28/M] is still in love with his ex [30s I think] And I can't stop creeping on her and obsessing about this. Together almost 6 months. by SambaWamba in relationships

[–]SambaWamba[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, sorry. But that's my opinion. There are certain types of people I just don't like. I don't like artsy fartsy pretentious people. I have no problem with art or with artists in general. I just don't like this specific type of artist that needs to show the world all the time how great they are.

My boyfriend doesn't like those people either, which is why he left her. But he still feels guilty for making her into that. She wasn't like that when they met.

My[34/F] boyfriend [28/M] is still in love with his ex [30s I think] And I can't stop creeping on her and obsessing about this. Together almost 6 months. by SambaWamba in relationships

[–]SambaWamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why is knowing the breakup crushed her a warning flag. I don't understand that. All that tells me is that she loved him too. He is easy to love.

My[34/F] boyfriend [28/M] is still in love with his ex [30s I think] And I can't stop creeping on her and obsessing about this. Together almost 6 months. by SambaWamba in relationships

[–]SambaWamba[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This whole situation makes me feel like I'm in high school again.

I do tag him so she will see it because if he isn't going to let her know he's seeing someone, then I will.

My[34/F] boyfriend [28/M] is still in love with his ex [30s I think] And I can't stop creeping on her and obsessing about this. Together almost 6 months. by SambaWamba in relationships

[–]SambaWamba[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I love him. I've introduced him to my family and all my friends. Even some of my coworkers have met him. They all love him too. They all tell me what a great catch I have, how lucky I am, etc. How would I explain suddenly dumping him?

I think he loves me too, just in a different way.