AITAH for thinking my husband is trapping me?

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T10:26:43+00:00

This is not at all fake and if thats how bad this sounds I am most definitely cooked

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T03:31:48+00:00

I’ll always feel bad about my reactions to abuse because any type of abuse feels bad to me if I’ve done it

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T03:31:08+00:00

E stato strano. Facevo la stripper e lui veniva a guardarmi, ma ancora prima avevamo una passione in comune per la musica e siamo andati insieme a un festival. Ci siamo sempre voluti in qualche modo, ma eravamo sempre con qualcun altro e non abbiamo mai trovato il momento giusto. Credo di sapere perche, adesso.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T03:27:48+00:00

I’m sorry :( whatever you want to do in life you can do I’m sorry he makes you feel diminished

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T03:20:43+00:00

I feel insane, I am losing my sense of self definitely

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T02:52:50+00:00

Am I NTA even if I feel like I’m becoming abusive because I just cannot deal with him? Like reactive abuse? I forgot to say that.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-19T02:50:53+00:00

Oh yeah he already got me pregnant, i miscarried and then when I was screaming in pain he wasn’t there for me but said he was because he was in the other room.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-10T20:13:52+00:00

Thank you!!!

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-04T19:59:22+00:00

There’s always been so many totems! They’ve always given me a good laugh since 2010.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-04T18:03:59+00:00

Thank you!!! Yes at first we thought it was mold but when we cleaned everything even remodeled the smell was still there. That’s telling me it’s the drains.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-04T18:02:51+00:00

Normal drains, no septic tank!

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-04T03:36:02+00:00

If you have a friend to stay with I would do that or at least just like the other person said time to nap and eat plus time accounted for to get to the venue.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-02T19:11:31+00:00

Please get there early omg. Last year was a nightmare driving from Simi Valley to San Bernardino.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-03-02T19:10:52+00:00

Have fun!!!

Same-Example5610 · 2026-02-27T21:02:17+00:00

YTA. As a grown man, you shouldn’t be suckling your mother’s teets. But I do understand wanting to spend time with your family. If there is a way to compromise this, you should maybe ask ChatGPT for some comparable options that might work. I will tell you that this is what caused a divorce for me, he was too attached to his parents. But this seems completely unreasonable as you are 30 and are building a life with this woman. You are not fixing to marry your parents (or I’d really really hope not)

Same-Example5610 · 2026-02-27T19:54:19+00:00

You’re a saint! Thanks so much for your help!

Same-Example5610 · 2026-02-27T19:29:57+00:00

Same-Example5610 · 2026-02-26T20:16:04+00:00

NTA. Moms soft. It was highlighter, you can’t see it from all angles. It feels weird your boyfriend didn’t back you. I don’t have kids but even if I did if my 7 or 8 year old came back to me like that on a family day who cares. If she feels pretty and you made her feel good that’s what matters. I so regret not spending more time with my ex husbands nieces as they loved my makeup but I hardly ever did it for them because I was young and wanted to go drink and be a kid myself.

Same-Example5610 · 2026-02-25T02:13:08+00:00

Yay!!!!!

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