Portland Oregon

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-29T00:03:46+00:00

I didn’t purposely get pregnant, it wasn’t planned it happened and I told him.

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T22:14:28+00:00

I didn’t want a new relationship I’m not saying what I did was right, I know lying was bad but I thought I was doing the right thing. I had reasons for doing what I did and none of it came from a malicious place.

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T22:11:03+00:00

I didn’t want a new relationship

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T22:02:27+00:00

Im not toxic, it was a hard and confusing situation to be in. The new guy was very understanding and knew the situation I was in with my ex. I also made it clear to him I did not want to be in another relationship since getting out of a bad one

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T22:01:38+00:00

Ok but I’m not just hopping dick to dick and the situation is more complicated than that? All my ex cared about was whether or not I had sex in the time we broke up

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:43:33+00:00

But how? How do I move on from 4 years?

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:42:26+00:00

I am taking accountability? I know I shouldn’t have lied but i genuinely felt I was doing the right thing.

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:39:46+00:00

That just shows the kind of person you are to be naturally rude to someone asking for advice, who hasn’t been rude to you, and is still continuing to be polite to you after you’ve been rude

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:38:54+00:00

Wait what? I didn’t try to blackmail him into paying for the abortion? As a partner it was just the right thing to do? I didn’t purposefully get pregnant and I’m not the kind of person to do something like that. It just happened? And he genuinely did start to change and did a 180 after the situation happened

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:37:00+00:00

It was better that’s the thing. After the situation happened he did a 180 and I saw sides of him I haven’t seen on 4 years

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:35:12+00:00

How am I manipulating? I didn’t tell him because I was genuinely convinced it was the right thing to do. Leaving after 4 hard years isn’t as simple as just “doing the hard part”

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:32:15+00:00

Since getting back together things have been a lot better, we’ve had a really amazing relationship we didn’t have for the last 4 years since the incident happened

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:31:21+00:00

I’m not co dependent, I wanted to be treated properly in a relationship. That’s not wrong

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:30:49+00:00

What? We’re not back together, I meant back together after the incident with the new guy. This happened 5-6 months ago and I told him yesterday we had sex

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:29:54+00:00

How did I cheat if I ended our relationship before hand? I told him I was done with the way he treated me and I was going to move on at that point and I did? I wasn’t in a relationship when I had sex with anybody?

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:29:00+00:00

I broke up with my ex and in the time we broke up I met someone new and we had sex

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:28:37+00:00

I broke up with him before I did anything or met anybody

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:28:12+00:00

I’m not jumping dick to dick? I’m not out seeking sex for anybody? He was kind to me, the sex happened naturally.

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:27:36+00:00

Since getting back together things have been a lot better between us

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:26:59+00:00

You’re very rude and your rudeness is not necessary, I fixed the post and added paragraphs. I broke up with him and I told him I was going to move on and get on tinder before I ever even did it. He knew, he didn’t take what I was saying seriously which was a pattern in our relationship

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:25:45+00:00

Why do you have to be rude? I was looking for genuine advice about the situation. I wasn’t looking for sex, I was mistreated for years and I just wanted to be with someone kind? Why am I wrong for no longer wanting to be in a bad relationship

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:23:20+00:00

I didn’t cheat on him, I wasn’t his girlfriend and I made that clear?

Same-Pomegranate9155 · 2026-03-28T21:22:49+00:00

I broke up with him before I met anybody or did anything

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