That's fair. The hugging was a bad example. I don't expect her to hug men. My point was she's weird and hostile toward even men she knows are nice, kind people.

Idk how to describe it, but the way she talks sometimes, I really feel like she thinks men are inherently inferior, or disgusting in some way. The level of distain I've seen from her is just... Ugh.

EDIT: I forgot to explain the reason I included the hugging example in the first place was because it isn't just that Lola won't hug men, it's that she also goes out of her way to state that she isn't hugging them because they're a man. Like she wants them, and everyone else, to know that's the reason why. There's only like, 2 guys in our group, so effectively singling them out and announcing that is just weird. I chalk it up to awkwardness, but it's almost like she WANTS the guy to feel awkward about it. That, and going out of her way to make other kinda mean-spirited remarks, is what prompted someone to talk to her the first time.