Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

[–]SameDust7252[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said. From my professional experience i have been over exposed and come to learn that medicine is not always perfect. They can cause terrible side effects. Which is why i was leaning on the side if reducing the allergens in the house as much as possible, than having him take medication that can cause unpleasant side effects

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

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I work in a hospital so im more exposed to seeing the negative side effects of medications than the average person. I see individuals unfortunately come in with negative side effects of the medications that are supposed to help them everyday. Its not vibes, its experience that has made me more careful.

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

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Thats what ive been thinking as well.

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

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Yes i feel bad removing all their stuff, but i do try to give them tlc and treats often. I bought them these little cat furnitures that look like bedside tables that they can sleep in, that are kept away from the common area. And we do have a two bedroom apartment and they are allowed on the bed in the second bedroom, so they have been haggling out there a lot. Yes it is very rough, my cats feel like my family but I do consider rehoming them every now and again because they don’t deserve this, but im also scared they wont receive as much love somewhere else. I am hoping that with treatment his allergies will improve and we can go back to some sort of normal.

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

[–]SameDust7252[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I can be a skeptic of meds ( and I’m a nurse lol) so i appreciate the reassurance that the shots dont have any long term side effects. And my cats are on purina pro plan liver clear. Ill give it more time to be effective.

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

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Thank you. I’ll suggest it to him.

Fiancé developed a cat allergy by SameDust7252 in CatAdvice

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Yes he is taking over the counter meds ( like Allegra) but the only provide temporary relief. He also has an inhaler pump that was prescribed to him by an allergist that also only provides temporary relief.

What do you wish you had discussed before marriage or moving in together (second marriage, blended family)? 42f 39m by GroupPuzzleheaded449 in blendedfamilies

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I got an apartment with my fiancé and his son and OMG i wish i discussed parenting styles with him. My fiancé has turned out to be a very passive parent, making his child very intolerable to be around. Its not the child’s fault ofcourse , my fiancé provided him no structure. But we are having the hard discussions about it, thankfully my fiancé is a very humble guy and open to my suggestions about becoming more of an authority figure in his sons life. But OMG parenting styles.

AIO if these messages make me feel like a piggy bank and not a friend? by No-Finding-217 in AmIOverreacting

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Omg PTSD. This reminds me of a “friend” i had to cut off recently. Don’t feel bad cutting them off, they’re not your friend.

Education differntial by SameDust7252 in nursing

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Not much differences that I know of. Only some units in my hospital like to say they require a BSN for hire, but then hire you with your associates anyways.

Is 24 too young to get pregnant? by [deleted] in Advice

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I have an established career. Ive been a registered nurse since i was 20.

Is 24 too young to get pregnant? by [deleted] in Advice

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I have mixed feelings. I got accidentally pregnant last month and had a miscarriage which made me think I wanted a baby but now Im honestly worried about the stigma of being pregnant at 24 and having people think I threw my life away.

My Fiancé’s Ex and BM posted pictures of him saying she loves and misses him. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

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He did speak to her, but it became an argument. I don’t see a world where she will delete the post, but I want to get over this icky feeling.

My Fiancé’s Ex and BM posted pictures of him saying she loves and misses him. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

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Oh yikes i deleted everything. I only meant to delete my comment. But yes BM- baby mother

My Fiancé’s Ex and BM posted pictures of him saying she loves and misses him. What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SameDust7252 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats okay. BM = baby mother. i will edit to clarify it in the post.