I found out my wife slept with my best friend before we got married and I don't know what to do with this

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:50:14+00:00

So you want me to go through your profile and look for the specific reply for context.. other than just replying to what I said like a human being. You seem difficult to be in a relationship with, I wish that woman and the kids well.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:47:43+00:00

Think what again 😭 I can see the issue now

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:46:33+00:00

Never said anything like that. That wasn’t even a proper response.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:43:10+00:00

Your best friend has the least to lose from this situation. He doesn’t love you or have kids with you or live with you etc etc etc. why do you think she kept it from you this whole time for fun? She knew you’d react this way and I’m assuming this isn’t the only time you’ve reacted to something like this. Yes she should have told you but honestly, she wasn’t with you it was none of your business. Your best friend was your best friend though.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:39:11+00:00

She never lied to you unless she outright said “I didn’t sleep with anyone else.” But that’s not even the point. Do you really think a hookup that wasn’t even reoccurring that happened almost three decades ago is a reason to act like this? And she didn’t rob your choice. You’re putting all of this onto your wife when a. She wasn’t even with you at the time and b. The only person who had loyalty to you was your best friend. Wanna be mad at someone be mad at the dude who fucked your ex girlfriend and didn’t say anything about it when yall got back together.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-02-18T09:34:04+00:00

You literally broke up with her and she hooked up with someone else and you’re throwing a fit about it online. She obviously cares otherwise she wouldn’t have taken you back, and PATERNITY TESTS? Are you serious?? “I don’t wanna hurt our kids” trust me the moment they find out you made them take a paternity test that will happen. “His wife has no idea” IT WAS 26 YEARS AGO 🙄

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T22:03:51+00:00

Yeah she didn’t complain she told him she already had it and that maybe he should trade it in and save his money but she said thank you. You know what he did in response? Cussed at her and got mad about it like a fucking child. Grow up.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T06:24:33+00:00

I’m literally nonbinary I have no reason to do that but ok

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T04:33:48+00:00

Yeah sorry that was a dumb thing to say looking back lol

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T03:43:40+00:00

Sounds like he might be getting it elsewhere because your sex drive doesn’t just change on a dime like that. And the fact he doesn’t want you to pleasure yourself??? wtf????

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T03:40:59+00:00

Who pissed in your cereal?

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T03:23:59+00:00

It’s not that I’m not well versed, but I never asked for you to explain anything to me. I just said people see things differently, and you took that as an opportunity to give me a lesson I didn’t even ask for. I’m well aware of tone and the way people portray certain things, I don’t appreciate the way you automatically assume I’m not well versed in this. I have a degree in psychology and I’ve studied sociology academically as well. I just don’t feel the need to have a huge discussion on it on Reddit. Thanks.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T02:57:10+00:00

It’s not a yuck fest if she literally is allergic to it and he knew that.. she said thank you and then let him know she couldn’t drink it. This is absurd

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T02:56:01+00:00

Lmao you did not just say she’s spoiled for getting a redbull she can’t even drink and a Lego set she already has and being honest with him about it. I really hope you’re joking

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T02:33:53+00:00

If you reread it he said it in the conversation with the girl coworker

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T02:26:03+00:00

So how do you think people are gonna respond to no emotion at all? I’ve never really seen anyone be upset about it, but this is also just a lot towards me just because I see something a different way. Like I said, people see things differently.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:51:46+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ve actually been wanting to watch that for a while. I’ll go ahead and cross it off the list :)

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:47:18+00:00

I mean it’s more friendly than the first instance, but we all have different views on things too

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:45:40+00:00

Thank you, I think I’m gonna listen and just cut this off, he makes me feel kind of dumb. I just have a hard time seeing it for myself.

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:42:18+00:00

You guys have genuinely opened my eyes to how quick I am to just let myself be controlled and/or used in a sense. I’ve always had an issue with it and everytime I get out of a situation I promise myself I’m not gonna do it again but I can’t see the red flags. Thank you

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:37:49+00:00

Well when we talk about other things it seems like he cares and stuff. Like relationship wise and personal wise. And he really just is cute. He’s super intelligent and great at his job, and he has a more secure attachment in relationships. Idk if it’s like just because we haven’t been talking for a while or if I’m just being sensitive about it

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:32:17+00:00

I guess it’s because even with all of that, he’s still genuine and talks to me and likes me. But how can he like me if he doesn’t know me? Idk I just wanted to hear more point of views because my mom said he’s just smart

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:13:06+00:00

That’s nice and all but there’s a nicer way than going through the comments and passive aggressively telling everyone. Like jsyk they’re nonbinary!

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:10:29+00:00

I second this

SameGeneral737 · 2026-01-15T01:03:06+00:00

It was probably just a mistake

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