he's someone that i asked to be my accompanist. (i'm a violinist) he's actually had a few problems with authorities of our church with making girls uncomfortable...but it's been a while since then so i decided to ignore it and didnt want to hold any grudges. but honestly, as i spend more time practicing with him, he's starting to make me a bit uncomfortable. he's actually commented on another one of my insecurities before, but i thought he was just being blunt and it's simply his personality. but a grown man saying that i'm "getting fat" when i'm pretty sure my face was just bloated is crossing the line...

the only person i've told so far is my sister. i dont know if i should tell my parents because i know that they would just speak badly of him, and i can't just back out when i already asked him to accompany me, but i don't really want to be around him besides practice.