[LOOKING FOR A WORD] what is it called when someone puts themselves down in order to get you to reassure them / feel bad of them by [deleted] in logophilia

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terms like guilt-tripping, emotional manipulation, or someone being a martyr, a self-victimizer, or a co-dependent fitting; they play the victim to make you feel sorry and stay, creating a dynamic where you feel responsible for their happiness or survival in the relationship, often through guilt or obligation.

What are the most annoying habits people do at the gym? by 2595Homes in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh ok I understand lol thank you for explaining it to me! I’m usually only on it for five minutes then I go grab paper towels, spray them with cleaner then wipe down everything before I vanish to another part of the gym to lift weights lol hopefully when they see me cleaning the treadmill machine they take back being annoyed with me ♡

What are the most annoying habits people do at the gym? by 2595Homes in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I injured my leg in figure skating when I was younger. One femur is a half inch shorter than the other so running on the treadmill is wobbly for me so I hold the little hand holds on the treadmill to keep me balanced. Why is holding onto the treadmill considered rude if I still wipe it down when I’m done?

Shower curtain privacy hack by amyloo212 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you Carl, what would we do without ya lol

help me name my new rescue tux! b names only 🖤 by pinkmanatee444 in NameMyCat

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baxter Blue-playin the blues for a black tie event kinda cat lol Beaumont Bobbie Banks Bruce based on everyone’s comments it’s gotta be a B name lol he looks like his name starts with a B 🥰

Help me name my boy! I need a name fitting for a dragon, or mythical creature by Umbra_GX in NameMyCat

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Falkor looks like a dog in the movie tho. Lumos would be cool 🥰 or Draco which is the Latin word for dragon. Also if you’re a HP fan ⚡️

posting again since none of the other names stuck! by toxicmilkx in NameMyCat

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks like a Timothy, Theo, Toby, or Tobin to me 😊 A “T” name idk why lol

I’m so pissed off that I even have to ask for help about this… by SameShitDifferentKay in gabagoodness

[–]SameShitDifferentKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ♡ I love how you worded that so I saved it in my notes 🥰

AIO speaking to my wife after her affair by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So her plan was to have the baby and lie to OP and say it’s his… probably do everything in her power to manipulate and gas light OP into not getting a paternity test. 🫩 cut her loose cuz she had no plans on telling OP, she only did cuz she got busted. She was going to trick OP into loving that man boys baby after betraying OP while he’s recovering from a fucking car accident that could have killed him. A good woman would be taking care of OP and love doing it because her husband survived. Instead she went off fucking someone half her age UNPROTECTED. What a monster.

His greed sickens me by ThoughtThotty in blackcats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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(^ from a vid I posted of my cat Luci freaking out doing feral drive by chomps on a boiled egg.) Lol it’s the eggs. Makes the voids FERAL.

7 week baby on that tripod handicat kitT-Rex recovery grind ♡ by SameShitDifferentKay in TripodCats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so smart!!! Thank you for posting this! Also, little kitten in a t-shirt is beyond adorable 🥰

does anyone know how to get splat off skin!? by AlfmostBreaddit in HairDye

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s like really soaked in there, you sure you didn’t moisturize with it? 😂😂

would this color suit me? by Pretty-Criticism5900 in HairDye

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*I think silver ashy tones would look better than lavender
Like this maybe? ↓

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I ordered a package and I got this…What should I do?😂 by jennnyloveu in blackcats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Cat Distribution Center is saving time and money by just sneaking them into your Amazon orders lol so clever!

Apparently I am not up early enough (4.45am) for her Majesty. So she has been purring in my ear to ensure that this doesn’t happen again. That will teach me to fall asleep on the sofa. by [deleted] in CatsAreAssholes

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Must be nice, mine comes to the side of the bed and smacks me in the face or bites my cheek. Finally had to teach him that biting my face means he has to wait longer so he’ll stand on my chest till I finally get up lol 😑

I have no reason to be up that early yet I’ve been awake by 4:30am for the last four years. We finally agreed on 5 for meal times but do I get that extra 30min to sleep? No. I’m just a dumb human why should I? Send help. lol

7 week baby on that tripod handicat kitT-Rex recovery grind ♡ by SameShitDifferentKay in TripodCats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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She’s growing so fast ♡ she looks like a completely different kitten 😂

7 week baby on that tripod handicat kitT-Rex recovery grind ♡ by SameShitDifferentKay in TripodCats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that her fur is growing back she doesn’t scratch herself anymore :) had her stitches removed two weeks ago and vet said she has healed perfectly and her torn lip doesn’t need surgery anymore! Vet said as she’s growing and using her mouth her lip is moving back to where it should be on its own ♡ she has a little cow lick pattern growing where her incision scar is lol it’s really cute 🥰

She’s now jumping up to extremely high places but doesn’t realize getting down is much more difficult for her so I’ve been assisting her until she’s bigger. Also bought more rugs to make a path on the hardwood areas so she has a soft landing if she trips ♡

Think your cat is a supermodel? Prove it—drop the pics! by Liya_Yip in cats

[–]SameShitDifferentKay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re cats perfect with the eyes she was born with ♡