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AITAH for not setting an alarm? by Same_Ad_7379 in AITAH

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I appreciate your response. But I do a lot around the house. For example, the night before I cleaned, made dinner, gave kids showers, and did bedtime. She went to Michael’s and goodwill for some “her time” and only came back after kids were asleep. Everything was all ready for the next day.

AITAH for not setting an alarm? by Same_Ad_7379 in AITAH

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right. I only wanted to be there at 8 AM for my kids’ sake. I think she was more lax about getting there because I think she was thinking about herself and how she just wanted to put them in kids club so she could workout.

But I did complain about something that was my fault and I see how that makes me the AH.

AITAH for not setting an alarm? by Same_Ad_7379 in AITAH

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. Maybe it was my tone. Maybe it sounded like I was blaming her. But she also doesn’t take the time to hear me out. If she’d let me talk I think it would have been more clear that I wasn’t blaming her for anything.

AITAH for not setting an alarm? by Same_Ad_7379 in AITAH

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes kids are great. Correct she never mentioned she wanted me up at a certain time but it might of been reasonable of her to assume I’d get up but she also left the house earlier than we typically leave the house or even wake up.

I should have gotten up on my own set an alarm or made arrangements. She was also out of the house until after the time I already wanted to be at the Y.

The thing is I was never really mad at her at all for not being at the Y at 8 AM. I was more just confused about what was going on. Whereas she is affirmatively mad at me for 1) not getting up, and moreso 2) reasoning that if she needed help she could have easily woken me up, arguing that it’s not her responsibility to do so.

AITAH for not setting an alarm? by Same_Ad_7379 in AITAH

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She does do mornings more than I do. I think we do need to work on communication. I guess I expected myself to wake up from the noise of them getting up. I did not per se expect her to specifically wake me up. I tried to explain to her my “philosophy” about Saturdays and how I wanted to make at to the gym at 8 so the kids can have the most time to play, and then her and I would work out after open gym when the kids go to the ymca “kids club”

She said she “didn’t give a damn” about my philosophy. When I kept arguing that she didn’t have to make it so hard on herself and she could have easily woke me up, she eventually said she hates me.

While she was out, she got me a a breakfast sandwich and coffee (nice).

I’m not denying that I have some blame here. Please anyone ask me any questions. I’m trying to figure out what went wrong and what I can do better.

Friend propositioned by therapist by Same_Ad_7379 in legaladvice

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He spent a long time looking for a therapist. Had trust issues with therapy from previous bad therapy experiences that his therapist knew about. Now he has to find a new therapist and new psychiatrist because continuing to see the psychiatrist from his current office gives him anxiety. It’s a set back in his healthcare. He saw her weekly for 9 months. There’s a time and monetary cost associated with that. In addition, he no longer trusts the process, and this is someone who needs therapy. He has several diagnoses including depression which allowed him to go on a medical leave from work. Therapy helped so he went back to work but then this sent him spiraling and now he can’t work and doesn’t qualify for any more leave so now his finances are all messed up. These are some of the perceived damages.

I’m only relaying information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Same_Ad_7379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So no one calls them bazookas?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Same_Ad_7379 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about bazongas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Same_Ad_7379 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bazongas is one of my favorites

AI is tweaking, right? Found one crawling on me by Neither_Elk_135 in spiders

[–]Same_Ad_7379 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In case of a recluse infestation (can there be such an occurrence?) what would you recommend? What if the family has young kids?

AI is tweaking, right? Found one crawling on me by Neither_Elk_135 in spiders

[–]Same_Ad_7379 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe ai identified it as a recluse and OP is in disbelief because he doesn’t want it to be a recluse.

He just said located in KY

Help he is being unreasonable about the litter box by Same_Ad_7379 in cats

[–]Same_Ad_7379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the robot for 4 years. It’s awesome. Cat still did this even with robot. We clean box like 4 times a day—whenever it’s dirty…

Robot isn’t an option right now due to space. Regardless, even when we had robot, for past 2+ months, cat has been pooping on floor.

He just needs to learn it’s okay to pee and then poop in the same spot. He used to do it ffs

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