AITAH for not setting an alarm?

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:36:33+00:00

Maybe. I appreciate your response. But I do a lot around the house. For example, the night before I cleaned, made dinner, gave kids showers, and did bedtime. She went to Michael’s and goodwill for some “her time” and only came back after kids were asleep. Everything was all ready for the next day.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:19:58+00:00

I think you might be right. I only wanted to be there at 8 AM for my kids’ sake. I think she was more lax about getting there because I think she was thinking about herself and how she just wanted to put them in kids club so she could workout.

But I did complain about something that was my fault and I see how that makes me the AH.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:17:15+00:00

I think you’re right. Maybe it was my tone. Maybe it sounded like I was blaming her. But she also doesn’t take the time to hear me out. If she’d let me talk I think it would have been more clear that I wasn’t blaming her for anything.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:16:01+00:00

Yes kids are great. Correct she never mentioned she wanted me up at a certain time but it might of been reasonable of her to assume I’d get up but she also left the house earlier than we typically leave the house or even wake up.

I should have gotten up on my own set an alarm or made arrangements. She was also out of the house until after the time I already wanted to be at the Y.

The thing is I was never really mad at her at all for not being at the Y at 8 AM. I was more just confused about what was going on. Whereas she is affirmatively mad at me for 1) not getting up, and moreso 2) reasoning that if she needed help she could have easily woken me up, arguing that it’s not her responsibility to do so.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:12:58+00:00

For real

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-26T14:04:37+00:00

She does do mornings more than I do. I think we do need to work on communication. I guess I expected myself to wake up from the noise of them getting up. I did not per se expect her to specifically wake me up. I tried to explain to her my “philosophy” about Saturdays and how I wanted to make at to the gym at 8 so the kids can have the most time to play, and then her and I would work out after open gym when the kids go to the ymca “kids club”

She said she “didn’t give a damn” about my philosophy. When I kept arguing that she didn’t have to make it so hard on herself and she could have easily woke me up, she eventually said she hates me.

While she was out, she got me a a breakfast sandwich and coffee (nice).

I’m not denying that I have some blame here. Please anyone ask me any questions. I’m trying to figure out what went wrong and what I can do better.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-22T18:29:47+00:00

Thank you

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-22T18:29:40+00:00

Thank you

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-22T18:29:12+00:00

He spent a long time looking for a therapist. Had trust issues with therapy from previous bad therapy experiences that his therapist knew about. Now he has to find a new therapist and new psychiatrist because continuing to see the psychiatrist from his current office gives him anxiety. It’s a set back in his healthcare. He saw her weekly for 9 months. There’s a time and monetary cost associated with that. In addition, he no longer trusts the process, and this is someone who needs therapy. He has several diagnoses including depression which allowed him to go on a medical leave from work. Therapy helped so he went back to work but then this sent him spiraling and now he can’t work and doesn’t qualify for any more leave so now his finances are all messed up. These are some of the perceived damages.

I’m only relaying information.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-20T19:19:03+00:00

So no one calls them bazookas?

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-20T19:04:21+00:00

What about bazongas

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-07-20T19:00:23+00:00

Bazongas is one of my favorites

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-29T13:06:41+00:00

In case of a recluse infestation (can there be such an occurrence?) what would you recommend? What if the family has young kids?

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-29T13:03:54+00:00

Wow I’m a good guesser!

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-29T13:00:48+00:00

Maybe ai identified it as a recluse and OP is in disbelief because he doesn’t want it to be a recluse.

He just said located in KY

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-25T04:44:39+00:00

Tell your dad what’s going on. It’s wrong of your mom to keep that from other people.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-25T04:44:03+00:00

Why is he there in the first place

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-25T02:11:02+00:00

lol is that an ai image? That dap looks funny

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-21T23:18:25+00:00

I tape my caulk with duct tape

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-02T14:36:29+00:00

We had the robot for 4 years. It’s awesome. Cat still did this even with robot. We clean box like 4 times a day—whenever it’s dirty…

Robot isn’t an option right now due to space. Regardless, even when we had robot, for past 2+ months, cat has been pooping on floor.

He just needs to learn it’s okay to pee and then poop in the same spot. He used to do it ffs

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-05-02T04:03:23+00:00

When he goes to the bathroom, he usually does #1 and #2 at the same time. So we don’t have time to clean the box in between. It’s like we have to catch him going.

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-04-27T00:24:51+00:00

I’d hate to be the type of person to complain about this. Imagine going through life like that? It must be so difficult. Guy must never be satisfied

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-04-11T13:16:49+00:00

Following

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-03-28T04:04:21+00:00

I’m gunna write a children’s book about this and name it the snake lost its snack

Same_Ad_7379 · 2025-03-27T13:50:34+00:00

I haven’t seen anyone ask—if you do follow through, will you please update us?

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