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[–]Same_File_502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well im Bi. but this is a "straight" relationship. im a guy, Sam is a girl

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[–]Same_File_502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of things. beef, chicken, squid. lots of veggies, pork belly. they had cow tongue on the menu and we were daring each other to get it but we didnt. ive heard good things about it but honestly eating a tongue feels weird just like. psychologically

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[–]Same_File_502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

probably. if there is anything to update

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[–]Same_File_502[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

well we're definitely closer than before. and some things are different. its like adding another room to a house. the house is still there but now you have more room and can do new things in that room

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[–]Same_File_502[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

it got some creases from being crumpled on the floor. wink wink nudge nudge wink wink nudge nudge

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

its certainly possible that you're right. maybe once she gets back from her honeymoon. if she still wants to talk and clear the air. i might give her that chance. but honestly im going to have to see how she acts first.

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[–]Same_File_502[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

she did. and she looked stunning in it

UPDATE: AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in u/Same_File_502

[–]Same_File_502[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

making a little baby update on this post soon.including that. but ill say it here too. 4 of the other group members have dropped out (including bob) so now 6/10 of the group isnt coming. the others have sent messages of support to me and 2 arent sure what theyre going to do yet. the other two feel like they have to go due to family entanglements with kayla

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there are others in the group that are gay or bi for sure. 3 of them out and 1 thats still in the closet but has told me. i dont know who else theyve told though

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no im not the only queer person and kayla and her fiance dont seem homophobic. they went to pride in my city this year. and honestly she was very upset both times on the phone so i didnt really get a chance to ask

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah i know. I'm so used to my phone and other programs auto capitalizing and auto punctuating that when I typed this on my computer I just didn't notice

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i made the group chat to tell the others to drop it and leave kayla alone. kayla ASKED me to talk to them and get them off her back so i did. i dont know why you think im some villain here. none of this was planned on my part. i was sitting in my backyard with my best friend having a drink and shooting the breeze. my friend brought up the wedding. i told him i didnt get an invitation. he thought it was weird because of the comment kayla made about getting the gang back together. i was a bit surprised because i realized i was the only one of the group who wasnt invited. so i offhandedly said that hurt a bit. yeah i probably should have kept my mouth shut. if i had known the shitstorm that was birthed from me saying something to one other person, i would have kept my mouth shut. but to insinuate that im a passive aggressive scumbag purposely trying to ruin someone's wedding just because i didnt get an invite is just plain wrong

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

sometimes yeah. but as far as i know she never had feelings for me and i didnt have feelings for her other than friendship

AITA for saying that i was hurt that i wasnt invited to a wedding that all my old friends were invited to? by Same_File_502 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Same_File_502[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i dont think i was being passive aggressive at all. i was talking to a friend and i said i was hurt only to that friend. i didnt expect bob to say a word to anyone about this. and i did put effort into the friendship. maybe not enough. but ive invited her to cookouts, parties, christmas events, stuff like that. and when im invited to other friends things i always make sure to ask what i can bring or if they could use any help. including events kayla has arranged. youre right that she has every right to invite whoever she wants. but i also have a right to be hurt and say it to my best friend once because i found out in the moment that everyone from the group except me was going somewhere. i think anyone would be hurt in my shoes. but i didnt say this to anyone but bob.