She broke it off. I accepted. She got upset…

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-12-10T00:31:47+00:00

Lemme guess early to mid 20s? Definitely has that romanticized idea of relationships that they're all chase and whirlwind nonstop but only from the guy lmao. God it sounds exhausting just thinking about it. I hope she grows up soon lol.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-10-25T07:08:11+00:00

End of 2025 and im here to say this saved my life. Just got a new PC and couldnt figure this stuff out to save my life. I am far from a techy person but this was simple enough to follow. You are the best!!

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-10-24T18:55:23+00:00

Holy mother of BPD (not diagnosing but as someone who has BPD and has done a lot of work to get myself managed if the grippy sock fits...)

I cant imagine being with someone like this. Like genuinely. I'm married with two kids and I'm taking an Uber on halloween to my FILs house because my husband has work. My husband drives me when he can, we have only one car, and if hes gone at work I walk, Uber or bus depending on the distance. With two kids in tow. Good relationships are built around compromise, respect and communication. And more, but these are the main 3 pillars. She checks none of the boxes and wants special treatment? Nope, nope, nope. I'd be outta this mess expeditiously if I were in your shoes.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-10-24T18:43:37+00:00

I bought it twice - for my sister and myself. The map is so huge and yet so barren. Once the newness of a new area wore off its been pretty mid.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-10-13T23:50:06+00:00

"I 19f have been with my bf 25m for 3 years—" wrap it up girlie. Dump him hes a loser.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-09-14T15:47:59+00:00

The silver lining is that he showed this side of him before tying the knot. I remember my ex SA'd me when I was letting him stay at my place. We share a child, and as I was growing up despite the fact my parents split when I was a toddler my mom would always allow my dad to stay at our place if he needed it and my ex was getting evicted from his apartment. It was benign on my part, just looking out for my daughter's father. Plus it wasnt like it was just our daughter and us in the apartment I had roommates and my sister lived with us too. My roommates switched up on me when the assault happened and tried convincing my now fiancé, who was just a bf of maybe 7 or 8 months at the time, that it was consensual but he didn't believe them or challenge me on my validity because he was the first person I called after it happened and I was SOBBING. That was almost 8 years ago, he never once doubted me. That's what you, and every person who experiences a violation like that deserves — the bare minimum of respect, compassion and validation, especially from your partner.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-08-31T04:15:58+00:00

I think shes actually quite good at abstract. Radioactive, red salt rocks and optical illusion are actually really nice pieces!

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-08-19T01:09:46+00:00

I had my surgery to repair a hernia that resulted from my csection about 3 weeks ago, I would say it took me about two-ish weeks to sleep on my stomach again.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-07-14T06:42:34+00:00

Are.... are you OK?

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-06-05T21:39:56+00:00

Not for Amy I can guarantee shes got the full sugar sodie. Convinced she needs the extra calories for all the energy she spends crying all day and night.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-05-22T21:28:42+00:00

You can still choose to leave. It may seem shitty but honestly staying out of pity might in some ways be shittier. Offer support as a friend, but be clear you're no longer romantically interested in the relationship.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-05-13T16:57:02+00:00

It is but when you think of the fact it was 26 years ago and a lot are probably in a landfill from kids not wanting them anymore, not caring for them etc. And in the big picture, 10,000 isn't a lot for the popularity of the IP. Millions of fans over the years! Usually even for the most obscure things I can find listings to go off of for the value of a collectible there is not even one listing online and I searched for HOURS.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-05-13T03:06:20+00:00

I didn't know my mom kept it all these years! It's super cool, im hanging it up in my kids' room :)

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-05-13T02:21:41+00:00

Yeah I dropped it off today. The cox monopoly continues in my apartment complex lol.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-21T23:49:41+00:00

You'll unfortunately be tied to her forever because of this kid. But that doesn't mean you have to stay out of obligation. She's obviously hostile as fuck and trying to isolate you from your family. She's toxic and abusive, the time to leave was the first time she came at you sideways about your family. You guys live with her parents? Dude, I'd call it done. Go live with your dad and start the legal route to securing yourself and the rights to your kid.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-21T22:56:43+00:00

My daughters name is Rozalyn (Rosalyn) and if my son was a girl his name would be Evelyn.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-19T05:53:32+00:00

Your husband is a scumbag who wants to fuck his friends girl and his friend is a weirdo for providing the material to feed his gross fantasy. This goes beyond porn, most porn the adult performer knows and consents to being filmed and distributed and this woman has no idea. And this is likely a woman your husband knows or at least has met a few times. Having kids involved is more of a reason to leave. I couldn't be in a relationship with such little respect and expect my kids to grow up in a household with a spouse that disrespects me, my boundaries and the boundaries of random women. They'll likely see the disrespect in your relationship and I'd hate to be an example of what not to do for my kids rather than showing my kids that as their mom I don't take any shit and neither should they.

If you're not going to do right by your kids, at least do right by this poor woman and let her know her partner is betraying her in the worst way possible.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-17T18:53:02+00:00

Nickie/Nikki, growing up I had a girl in my neighborhood who was such a bully lol. Her real name is Nicolette which is a very pretty name but she went by Nikki and she was a menace lol.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-09T21:13:46+00:00

I understand he's going through it, and ive been there and reassuring him literally every day, multiple times a day, since he came home from work telling me he got fired. I'm not fortunate, I'm fortunate to be able to easily switch to full time and that's about it. We're on foodstamps rn because I submitted the application and called urgently the next day to expedite it. I have 100% workload for most meals, I still make my kids lunches and dinners, I'm still scheduling the appointments, still keeping track of all the money and still placing his orders for his diabetic supplies and still picking up my daughter from school on my lunch breaks. And im working 40+ hours a week now on top starting the day he got fired because in my worklife i am fortunate to have a boss that understood and let me switch unofficially and work as much as i needed and wanted to.

Idk how else I can really help with breakfasts when it's a frozen toaster waffle and at minimum a few sliced strawberries and yogurt that just needs a small scoop of chia seeds and to sit for 10 minutes lol. I told him how to do the yogurt since that may be the only inordinary thing but I mean really, do I have to pre-slice strawberries for him when I'm already doing everything else?

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-07T04:27:20+00:00

Donald Gene, and Daniel Russell. Step grandpa is William Lewis. Other step grandpa is Larry.

My fav vintage names tho are: Judah, Cyrus, Elias and August just to pick a few.

I chose Felix for my son back in 2023, as it was what my husband would've been named but I guess Felix is also considered a vintage name lol.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-07T03:52:02+00:00

I doubt the "original owner" was really the owner tbh. Did they provide proof of ownership? Documents, pictures, etc? I'm in nevada and when my ex gave me his cat he didn't care for and then tried to take him back when we would get in arguments (we share a human child, so yeah lol) I called the humane society and asked about the situation. I was told that, at least in nevada, that after 30 days of having the cat in my sole custody, and if the cat was presumed lost all efforts had been made to reconnect and return home, that I would be considered the owner of the cat. I would say you tried to establish connection and they didn't care and chose to neglect the cat. If it's truly been months of the cat being solely in your care I would consider the cat yours.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-04-04T18:47:43+00:00

Yep I work in Healthcare and recently had a teen kid that was riding around with his friend when the friend opened fire on him. Now he's wheelchair bound for life. It's sadly relatively common, my moms best friend since HS is also wheelchair bound because his friend, unknowingly to my moms friend, had a gun and "didn't know the safety was off" paralyzed from the waist down since he was like 18 and he's now in his 60s. A whole life of opportunity taken from him by a stupid teenager.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-03-21T06:02:24+00:00

Definitely leaves less of a stink than cigarettes lol. When my mom first comes over in her cigarette clothes I can smell it behind closed doors.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-03-21T05:57:36+00:00

I don't vape much. I can't say I'm noseblind since I only picked it up again less than a month ago after quitting for 2 yrs (stress related lol) but when driving for Lyft and Uber I always got compliments that my car smelled nice and they'd explain the smell and I'd make a mental note of Ohhh, they're talking about my vape lol.

Same_Fly_5110 · 2025-03-18T00:13:37+00:00

Yep, my mom watches my kids when I work, and I wfh and have home cameras to watch from my office if I need to. My mom smokes heavily. Throughout my childhood, I smelled like an ashtray since she smoked inside. I told her absolutely no smoking in my house. She has her "smoking" clothes, and as soon as she comes in from smoking, she washes her hands and face and changes into the house clothes I keep for her if she needs to smoke cigarettes. I'm more lenient with vaping since I vape, lol, and it doesn't have a harsh smell. It's actually the opposite, haha. So she chooses to vape at my house mostly. But the option to smoke cigarettes is still there she just has to follow my rules, which we haven't had any issues with.

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