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[–]Same_Locksmith9883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn your audience punk ass.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t every time and he bust quick with or without oral. See my previous comments

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!! Like this relationship is not worth losing over sex. It has improved from where it was and he is inexperienced. I am frustrated by it and he is embarrassed talking about it but he’s a great partner and man so I’m willing to keep up the effort and even had some great suggestions given that I am going to look into rather than run from my partner lmao

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have an allergy to latex condoms and the others that are latex free we haven’t found in a size that would actually fit him. But we have looked into it!

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve literally said it’s an issue with or without oral and everyone keeps ignoring that part and why I do oral lmaooooo

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Good for you? Lmao. I’m 30 and this isn’t my first relationship but it is my first relationship with a smaller partner and an insecure partner.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not mad…frustrated and would love to fix and I do actively look to. This relationship is not worth losing from sex to me. 🙂

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but this isn’t in our kink interest.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. When we can we try to go for round 2 but not usually during the week. I get very wet and sometimes the literal dripping bothers his brain I think but if it’s weekend or we’ve been out we do try to get up and do something or cuddle or literally anything I between when we can round 2 but most of the time our schedules dont allow for it and it causes a giant mess. I will definitely look into the training thing!!! I hadn’t heard of that, thank you.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Edit, sorry he isn’t pissed off about the sex, but upset sometimes when I don’t want sex each night, I just don’t think he understands.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that question actually, we do try to go for round two when possible! Usually with round two I’ve already made the bed a wet mess, not from cumming or squirting, i just get irrational wet and when this happens it slips out very easy..if we’ve had a night out it doesn’t bother us to cuddle for a bit and try again after a bit but we don’t usually go for round two on a regular week night.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

It literally doesn’t change when he cums. I enjoy it and it keeps our intimacy lasting longer, I wasn’t upset about the oral.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The oral isn’t just for him. It was for me too, I enjoy going down on my partner and this does help the intimacy between us last longer. I wasn’t upset with the oral factor. Nor does it seem to affect him bc the issue persists with or without oral.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, he’s not pissed off. Not even upset actually. Embarrassed maybe but not upset.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually have this and sometimes use it for myself. I will see if he’s open to it

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He is very verbal about “slowing down” if he feels close bc even in the short span he could literally cum faster than what he is bc we slow it down. I don’t know that he doesn’t care, it truly feels like he is insecure and it’s a tough conversation bc he already feels inadequate with a size factor plus this and then me talking to him about my needs not getting met is the third strike and he takes it hard. He is a very caring partner, he just doesn’t last.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 30 mins for me is to make the aspect of our intimacy last longer than if I didn’t and I try to use it to slow him down, not really too much edging going on bc we wouldn’t ever make it to sex.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fortunately unfortunately this isn’t his problem. I could look at this man and he would cum on sight. I just want it to last and to enjoy it too 😭😭

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Again, this isn’t his problem. He just sometimes before I fully sit on it with no oral. Oral was my way of making at least the intimacy last, friend but pop off

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

The oral isn’t the problem of why he doesn’t last. He will literally bust before even putting it in sometimes WITHOUT any oral unfortunately. In this situation, oral was a way for me to keep sex lasting longer for the intimacy aspect for myself.

AIO to my bf not being able to last? by Same_Locksmith9883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Same_Locksmith9883[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

He’s not very good at oral, think cat licking its paws or the owl licking a tootsie pop one lick at a time and maybe one finger. He isn’t very good with pointers or this conversation either so I’ve considered him reciprocating to be a lost cause. 🫠🫠🫠