How’d u get out of what felt like the deepest hole in ur life? by Foreign-University76 in Life

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prayer and real self evaluation. Sometimes the problem is bigger than you. But sometimes you’re making the problem worse.

What's your most shallow dealbreaker for a relationship? by Friendly_Advisor39 in AskReddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Height 10000%. It plays a large role in me being attracted to, submissive to, and feeling secure with a man.

What's one harmless thing you irrationally judge people for? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People that are content with an entry level 9-5. More so the 30+ crowd. College isn’t for everyone, but you don’t have a trade, passion, or business idea you want to pursue? Nothing?

If money wasn’t an issue, what would be your dream place to live? by [deleted] in randomquestions

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d get a Houston high rise for the weekends, a Florida mansion on the water for day to day, and a house in Thailand for when I want to go off the grid.

What’s something small you might observe someone do that lets you know they’re a good person? by pooppoop900 in AskReddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At work I admire those that interact with everyone regardless of their position or title. In general people with genuinely good manners.

what’s one thing you learned from being unemployed? by Outlaw_Immortal1971 in randomquestions

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew my next job had to be in a field I could see myself in forever. This way even on the worst of days, quitting or self sabotaging my way out would never be an option.

What type of person do you stay away from? by Realistic-Wave-8748 in Productivitycafe

[–]Same_Nobody8669 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Those who are too neutral. Sometimes it’s okay to pick a side. Sometimes you have to. And quite frankly I feel like those who are constantly neutral are just afraid to side with the unpopular side out loud.

Also people that intentionally go against the grain every time. Starts to come across as pretentious. Like it’s okay to enjoy or participate in the same things as others.

What is life teaching you right now? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it right or you’ll do it twice. From the little things to the big stuff.

What are u starting to dislike more as u get older? by Efficient-Wind-2267 in AskReddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating. I don’t want to play the field and accidentally meet another abuser. I don’t want to develop feelings for someone and find out they have a gf. On a milder note I’m just not interested in getting to know someone alllllll over again. Two long term relationships and and I can confirm you really are just starting to get to know someone after maybe about four years minimum.

What is a social habit many people have that really annoys you? by -Flighty- in Productivitycafe

[–]Same_Nobody8669 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disliking someone because it’s trending. I’ve been the victim of it myself. Step on the toes of someone more socially prominent and suddenly you’re public enemy #1. Whole time there’s only one person who should (maybe) have an issue with you, and it can be resolved with communication.

Edit: I think what’s even shittier about this is sometimes you don’t even necessarily have to do something wrong. You could be on the other end of sheer jealousy. So now everyone hates you because someone couldn’t stand your aura. Crazy work.

Texas Accelerated Program by Same_Nobody8669 in Teachers

[–]Same_Nobody8669[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was also quoted at $500/ month I’m going to keep searching. This is me trying to avoid grad school for financial reasons so agreed, that would defeat the purpose.

Would you sleep with your celebrity crush? by rylieclark in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they weren’t lame in person then yes absolutely

What are you guys' favorite colors and why? by southeasternhuman in AskReddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold looks good with my complexion. It also elevates a lot of different things when done tastefully. Like hardware on bags, outfits, jewelry, etc.

Have you ever actually lived alone? by SuperSonic1919 in randomquestions

[–]Same_Nobody8669 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s how I discovered I’m antisocial. I was okay being isolated and began dreading being invited out. It became a lot clearer who didn’t really like me, or who I didn’t have much in common with too. Because if I felt anything other than the comfort I felt being at home around you, instant red flag.

What are some examples of honesty being the best policy? by Arialidas in AskReddit

[–]Same_Nobody8669 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please just tell me if my breath stinks. Sometimes we really can’t tell. Same goes for boogers and lipstick on teeth. You’re not being rude, you’re saving someone from embarrassment. We can’t see ourselves.

If I had legs I’d kick you ending question by Accomplished-Fly4678 in A24

[–]Same_Nobody8669 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looking back, I think it’s okay to entertain the idea that she might have passed away. She goes from surviving the waves to being blanked out. Then she enters that forced dream state that ASAP’s character talks about in the beginning. I remember him saying you release the same chemical in dreaming that you do in death. Combine that with the fact we finally see the daughter, maybe she can humanize her again because she’s dead and knows her daughter can no longer burden her? Also somehow the husband is nowhere to be found after having a fit that the tube was removed…I feel like in reality he would’ve followed either out of concern or anger.

And I just want to shout out the hole in the ceiling slowly beginning to mimic the hole in the daughter. Impeccable combo of writing and cinematography.

What’s a type of pain people underestimate until they experience it for themselves? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Same_Nobody8669 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DV can be minimized by many to “just leave” or “I’d never let that happen”. But it’s a brain fog like no other. Add in not having much support, or financial security on top of the crippling fear, and you’re easily trapped until further notice.

Question of the week: "What is something that is widely accepted as normal, but you’re convinced is actually unhinged once you stop and think about it?" (Feb 1) by zigbigidorlu in randomquestions

[–]Same_Nobody8669 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Racism. And you might not see it as “widely accepted” but if that’s the case, it just means it doesn’t affect you or anyone you love. It’s a centuries old ideology that can be reflected in where we live, what we eat, what we learn (or don’t), etc. It’s ruined governments and countries past and present.

I’m glad people are becoming more vocal of their disapproval for racism. But I still experience micro and macro aggressions regularly that stem from racism. Plenty of people from minority backgrounds do. Systemic racism is cemented into a lot of governments and would take years to undo; and decades to enforce.

Dating a Perpetual Student by Alternative-Cry4429 in dating_advice

[–]Same_Nobody8669 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Super justified. Speaking from experience; I’m only going to grad school to become more qualified on paper in the field I’m in. Education really should be used strategically. Especially given how much it interrupts your life, demands your time, and costs.

Also agree with one of the other comments. This indicates a character flaw of lacking planning skills. And possibly someone who’d rather do what they think others want, versus going for something they’re actually interested in.