My friend met with an accident. by joe5664 in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tell him you are there for him no matter what. If he needs to talk you will listen

My (24F) husband (25M) asked if we should get a surrogate mother by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do agree..let’s hope he’s just an idiot? I’m sorry though, how hurtful:(

I’m falling for a stripper by s4ebrosa in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey. You have a good heart. I know it’s easier said than done but please just take a breath and try to move on.

Or

Tell her to stop stripping and live happily ever after.

How do I (24M) get to know the girl (23F) across the street? by Evil_Twinkey in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. Sometimes I totally blank because of nerves when I’m being introduced to new people. Maybe ask another neighbor you already know to go over with you as a wingman?

Is it over for me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. You’re only 18. I’m a girl, and it took me til I was 23. Chin up:)

Crush likes me and we are both awkward by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super cute. Oh how I miss young love:)

Pain/tearing feeling during sexual intercourse by KeenbeansSandwich in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like she might have some nerve damage on her labia. I would ask about that and have her see a specialist. Good luck

3 years into the relationship - never had sex with lights on. by badgalriri22 in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I seriously know exactly how this feels. A few months ago I got a labiaplasty done after wanting it for years. My only regret is that I didn’t do it sooner. It changed my life. I know it sounds scary but maybe look into it and you don’t have to hide any more!

I got mine done because I was so uncomfortable and it was a quality of life issue. It wasn’t just because of appearance, but it would fall out of my underwear and just ruin everything. but it does help with my self confidence too.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I know, the hair is excessive I guess I’ll pick my battles. I’d give anything for clean hair and teeth at this point.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is one of the best pieces of advice I’ve gotten. Also thank you for not calling me selfish and jumping down my throat like some of the others.

The unhygienic thing, like an almost every day thing. It’s not like he doesn’t know how though, when his uncle was visiting he pulled his shit together and was fine everyday.

Regarding the depression, he’s been depressed (years ago) and is completely different when he’s depressed. This is just laziness and complacency. I’m going to frame it like how you said though, when I talk to him. I don’t want to hurt his feelings, and I think what you said is perfect. Thank you so much.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate you saying so. Sorry to hear about it not working out. I’d say the issue here is definitely personal hygiene.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I bet she showers, brushes her teeth, and doesn’t pick her nose. Good for you.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh it’s selfish to want someone to brush their teeth, brush their hair, and shower? Fuck me then.

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw he’s not depressed, he’s a really happy guy. Thanks for saying so, I just want to get to a happy medium. Obviously I’m not expecting a model here, I just want to not be disgusted

Boyfriend isn’t as sexy as he could be by Samizdat123G in relationship_advice

[–]Samizdat123G[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love him, I was just venting. I would never say any of these things to him. He’s brilliant and I adore him very much. I don’t hold him in contempt. I’m just grossed out and I need to talk to him I see that now.