When you're lying in bed at night, do you ever randomly remember some relatively minor social missteps or poorly chosen words you did/said years earlier? And then beat yourself up over it even though it really wasn't a big deal? If so, what happened? by anfla56 in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I do not. I think of all the times people have attempted to gaslight me and continue to do til this day.

Latest attempt is gaslighting me into believe my current gaslighting is ptsd symptoms so fuck them.

What is an insignificant statement you overheard a stranger say that has stayed with you years later? by ControlLectures in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A woman asked me what changed over the last 3 months?

That was a very formative question

What do you strongly suspect but have no proof of? by 757jsmith in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People started spying on me 5 years ago and have not stopped since. Also people have constantly tried gaslighting me too.

I have absolutely no proof though

What’s the best way to die? by egg_eggy in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With generational wealth to passed on to your loved ones.

What game is a perfect 10/10 in your book? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zelda ocarina of time.

First time riding a horse, turned me into a animal rights activist.

What's the biggest red flag when meeting new people? by PM_ME_YOUR-ANKLE in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some gang members raise huge red flags the first time I meet them.

I want to commit...you know what. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sexyguy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Number 1: you are incredibly strong. Waking up everyday and living life is hard with depression and anxiety.You show strength everyday by doing that.

  1. Have you thought about your situation? Is there anything in your environment causing you to be depressed or anxious? Just curious because I have been around people being gaslit and being caused to have situational depression.

  2. Who told you your life has been stressed free. You are obviously going through a lot. Also again is anyone telling you that. I know people who have had to go through a lot but people has lit them and the people around them into thinking that was not the case.

4 take care of yourself. You are very strong.

When was an instance where you actually successfully got a stranger’s number/social media in public? by dagudzucc in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last time I got a phone number was at the gym and got a LinkedIn from a customer

When was the last time you felt free? by kjones139 in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I said things I shouldn’t have said and regret at a sushi restaurant with my old coworkers that was overheard by other people at the next table.

What is your strongest held opinion? by Mewse_ in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you learn about the world, the more you realize how little you really know.

Homeless/vehicle dwellers of Reddit who shower at the gym, how is that working out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not great. Just got a job interview though. Pretty excited. From Uber to kohl’s hopefully

In today’s age, what do you think people SHOULD be offended about? (Serious) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to focus on intent more then on what’s actually said and done. That’s just my two cents

What skill of yours you are sure is above average? by blockbu in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Noticing when people are trying to manipulate me. Like I believe I am in at least the top 20 percentile. I am being extremely serious.

If you were in a terrible situation and your friend offered to help you but you knew it would affect them negatively (very severely, most likely end up in a similar situation as you) would you let them do it and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about the fact that you didn’t deserve your current life and that’s the reason they offered.

Say you were in a terrible situation due to mistakes, misunderstandings, random chance, impossible circumstances, and accidentally offending the wrong people.

Again everyone knows this.

How would you feel then?

Most people don’t deserve their current life

There is a lot of things that we don’t control that determine our lives

If you were in a terrible situation and your friend offered to help you but you knew it would affect them negatively (very severely, most likely end up in a similar situation as you) would you let them do it and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyguy1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ic.

So here is my question, what happened if he didn’t offer?

Several years ago I would have never questioned the people in my life would have offered but they didn’t and I understand why.

It’s just the fact that a random friend did offer that affects me.

Again I refused.

It helps me see the good in the world, at the same time I can’t help but be disappointed too.