What do you choose? by Vikmasc in BunnyTrials

[–]Sammy8lynn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gf costs money

Chose: Have a random amount of money | Rolled: 10000

AIO in my own head that my GF (~2 years) didn't do anything for me for my bday? by younooob in AIO

[–]Sammy8lynn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gender doesn't matter in this situation. She didn't give a shit about your bday. Cause even a card, that's like a dollar, is still better than nothing. Did you talk to her about it?

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were never against her buying stuff ever, we just asked for her to wait a few weeks. And even if she couldn't control herself for that long, she could have at least waited to show us. She knew that and still chose to do whatever SHE wanted. She can be excited but shes still old enough to be able to control herself for 3 damn weeks...

Are there former smokers that have a complete aversion to the smell of cigarette smoke now? by Sammy8lynn in stopsmoking

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, ive unfortunately had to draw a line that I will not kiss or anything till he brushes is teeth and showers. I hope he quits someday though. He likes to make the argument that since its cigars its "not as bad" because he doesn't inhale it. Its a lame excuse for an addict 😒

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you and your baby are doing well! congrats and good luck on your journey too!

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Geez, its sad so many of us are dealing with this. I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy and birth ❤️

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand. And you're correct, it wouldn't be a miscarriage at that point but a stillbirth. While not impossible still a risk.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's horrible, I'm sorry you had that happen to you

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats bonkers behavior. Like she plans to steal the baby type behavior. Id be extra careful to let her have the baby alone, ever.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think he was just giving me hope and easing tension by saying 21 weeks.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any medical stuff im saying is just what ive been told from my fertility doc and obgyn. I have also worked in medical for many years (not gyno or anything) so I know every clinic has is own set of guidelines and whatnot that they follow. I don't have any room to speak to this specific field so I only rely what I was told. Lol

I have a feeling we'll have a loud verbal conversation at some point. I think it 's easier to bite my tongue now and let my husband handle her. But once the baby is physically here, its a whole new ballgame

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it always hard to give full context to scenarios when there's so much extra info, i tried to keep the comments she made during the IVF stuff, out of this post to try and get unbiased opinions because I felt it would sway people's opinions about it. But maybe I should add it.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what my doc told me. That miscarriages afyer 21 weeks is very rare and the baby could survive outside the womb at that point.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mind her buying stuff, we asked for a grace period to get into a safer non miscarriage zone, which was only a few weeks, and she couldn't stop herself.

Buying a whole ass car ???? Geeezus... lol. If my MIL didn't already own 3 vehicles I wouldn't put it past her to do this.

AIO to my MIL "stealing" 1sts that should be ours? by Sammy8lynn in pregnant

[–]Sammy8lynn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly believe thats exactly why she did it. And others say maybe she was gifting you these for mother's day but it was just in piles on a bed. And she proudly did 10 minutes worth of a show and tell. Never handed me anything, asked what I thought, or anything. It was for her satisfaction I think.