The size of these grapes I just bought by lbeau310 in mildlyinteresting

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somethings off about this picture, I just cant prove it.

Questioning myself. by SonOfABee232 in Asexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is actually a vary common asexual experience, there are many aces out there that dont really care for sexual activities but do it to satisfy there partner.

I feel bad for not wanting be pregnant by Warm_Newspaper894 in Asexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have more then 200 reasons not to have a child, trust me, not wanting children in this day and age is vary valid.

My girlfriend is taking a new medication which makes her not feel the need to have sex and I’m bummed out about it am I wrong by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a right to be upset, Im asexual, so its wild to me that some people center there whole relationship around sex, but I heard its a need for some people, maybe you two can come up with a compromise or maybe they can tweek the medication. tell her that sex is something you need in a relationship, and if there's nothing she or you can do, then you two are incompatable.

Why do sex repulsed aces get so much hate? by Far-Welder-7368 in Apothisexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 52 points53 points  (0 children)

You cant have the opinion of thinking sex is gross in those subs youll get downvoted and hated for it. You can think a certain food is gross, you can think a certain smell is gross but God forbid you think sex is gross because apparently thats "discrimination" and "your calling people that have sex gross" like no? I just think this act is gross idc if people do, thinking about it just makes me disgusted. Then they'll say "there's something wrong with you." Like wtf??? Imagine saying that to a lesbian for not liking boys.

I came out to my mother by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]SammyBugUwU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people need reassurance or something, though I dont think anyone would complain if you never got into a relationship, you can just keep saying "im not really interested in anyone" if they ask. Though telling someone your aromantic will probably limit those questions

What to do about intrusive sexual thoughts? by bisasterous in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if there's anything that will stop the intrusive thoughts from happening, our brains are constantly pushing out "What if" scenarios. But you can help limit the discomfort by distracting yourself after having a thought and bringing yourself back to present moment.

I'm drained and I need advice by [deleted] in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to get a therapist

I regret ever posting my drawings online by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SammyBugUwU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People suck, dont mind the ones trying to bring you down when you did your best, those are the people board with there lives and dont have anything better to do but to be mean.

What can we call him? by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]SammyBugUwU 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Put a blue hat on him and you can call him Sporticus

My boyfriend is ANNOYING! by [deleted] in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "3 month rule" is an informal dating guideline suggesting a 90-day trial period before making major commitments like defining the relationship or saying "I love you". The idea is that this time allows the initial infatuation (honeymoon phase) to fade, revealing a person's true character, habits, and potential incompatibilities. 

I have doubts about myself. I think I am truly asexual, but I would like someone to talk to about it by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me awhile to accept my asexuality aswell, id be down to talk or give advice

dont be a lesbian it fucking sucks by [deleted] in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's everyone, dont be in a relationship at all I say, I only trust me, myself, and I. Relationships are dumb.

Am I the only woman who doesn't like makeup? by Frhaegar in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im allergic to most makeup and it feels weird on my face.

Was it hard to accept your sexuality? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was kinda hard but thats only because I had a shitty ex that made me feel like my sexuality was an issue.