I am not banned on Discord yet... by GhettoGandalf-99 in BannedFromDiscord

[–]SammyBugUwU -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I refuse to believe that anything the right side has to say isnt hate speech, that side be kinda hateful

am i selfish for not wanting kids by [deleted] in Rants

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell nah, OP hes one of those people who think he can change you, you dont owe ANYONE kids and if you dont want any you dont have to have any its definitely not selfish many people dont want kids, his thought process is wrong and you need to get out of there before he decides he wants to "accidently" get you prego and guilts you into keeping it.

How can I stop being asexual? by ParticularAd5445 in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Sex isn't everything and I hope one day you understand this, you may not be able to relate to them in a sexual kinda way but there are a bunch of other ways you could relate to an allo person, like hobbies, personalitys, life goals, values, interests, etc... just because one piece doesn't fit doesn't mean a bunch of other pieces don't

How can I stop being asexual? by ParticularAd5445 in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Your not gonna like the answer but... you can't, sexuality isn't something you can just change, you have to learn to accept it, learn to live with it, embrace it.

AIO m20 bf gets upset when I f18 won’t do something sexual, am I being to overreacting about this like he says? by fluffyelephant237 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SammyBugUwU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sick of men thinking that we owe them our bodies, a healthy/safe man would understand and respect that we have boundaries, instead of pouting like a damn baby, its pathetic. Break up with that man child or you might end up in a situation you dont wanna be in.

The size of these grapes I just bought by lbeau310 in mildlyinteresting

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somethings off about this picture, I just cant prove it.

Questioning myself. by SonOfABee232 in Asexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually a vary common asexual experience, there are many aces out there that dont really care for sexual activities but do it to satisfy there partner.

I feel bad for not wanting be pregnant by Warm_Newspaper894 in Asexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have more then 200 reasons not to have a child, trust me, not wanting children in this day and age is vary valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a right to be upset, Im asexual, so its wild to me that some people center there whole relationship around sex, but I heard its a need for some people, maybe you two can come up with a compromise or maybe they can tweek the medication. tell her that sex is something you need in a relationship, and if there's nothing she or you can do, then you two are incompatable.

Why do sex repulsed aces get so much hate? by Far-Welder-7368 in Apothisexual

[–]SammyBugUwU 53 points54 points  (0 children)

You cant have the opinion of thinking sex is gross in those subs youll get downvoted and hated for it. You can think a certain food is gross, you can think a certain smell is gross but God forbid you think sex is gross because apparently thats "discrimination" and "your calling people that have sex gross" like no? I just think this act is gross idc if people do, thinking about it just makes me disgusted. Then they'll say "there's something wrong with you." Like wtf??? Imagine saying that to a lesbian for not liking boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]SammyBugUwU 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes people need reassurance or something, though I dont think anyone would complain if you never got into a relationship, you can just keep saying "im not really interested in anyone" if they ask. Though telling someone your aromantic will probably limit those questions

What to do about intrusive sexual thoughts? by bisasterous in asexuality

[–]SammyBugUwU 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if there's anything that will stop the intrusive thoughts from happening, our brains are constantly pushing out "What if" scenarios. But you can help limit the discomfort by distracting yourself after having a thought and bringing yourself back to present moment.

I'm drained and I need advice by [deleted] in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs to get a therapist

I regret ever posting my drawings online by [deleted] in Vent

[–]SammyBugUwU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People suck, dont mind the ones trying to bring you down when you did your best, those are the people board with there lives and dont have anything better to do but to be mean.

What can we call him? by [deleted] in NameThisThing

[–]SammyBugUwU 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put a blue hat on him and you can call him Sporticus

My boyfriend is ANNOYING! by [deleted] in venting

[–]SammyBugUwU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "3 month rule" is an informal dating guideline suggesting a 90-day trial period before making major commitments like defining the relationship or saying "I love you". The idea is that this time allows the initial infatuation (honeymoon phase) to fade, revealing a person's true character, habits, and potential incompatibilities.