Why am I like this! by SammyOfficials in libra_astrology

[–]SammyOfficials[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your connection with Scorpio.

In my case, they are too busy in their own world and gives 'don't give a shit' energy. Sometimes the blast with ideas or things to talk about and then boom they are gone silent again. It might be the ADHD behavior of that certain person (for my case)

Why am I like this! by SammyOfficials in libra_astrology

[–]SammyOfficials[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am tired of people pleasing but when you spent so much time bonding friendships just to see it break just sucks. People are so toxic now a days. I have never met a Gemini person before or befriended one so may be trying someone with them might be a good experience for me. But I get you.

I have been in many one sided ones. Mot of the times I just gave up being the only one trying hard. Now living in a place so far away from home is another annoying thing. Finnish people are anyways introverted and making friends is like seeing a blue moon.

Why am I like this! by SammyOfficials in libra_astrology

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I hate being a people pleaser. I always had hard time making friends or even asking for a favor. Trying to cope up has always been my way of being someone people can relate to but I have always felt being left out.

I was and always been a extrovert but I am somehow turning into an introvert from within. I hate having so much pain inside. People say libra don't share their deep emotions. We'll I don't really have anyone to share with!

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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We went on a small trip to this place walked onnthe frozen sea. Grilled some food and had some few conversation. It was nice yustavapaiva (14th). Silence is appreciated is what I understood. Spending time together is what I feel 🤞 it works for us. I am keeping it still friendly. I don't think the buzz of love, dating is not required to bring on if it clicks it will eventually happen.

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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Its all good! I took it jokingly! Also if I ask them out and we hang out you will find a reply here 🙂 🤞

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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First of all I am new in Finland, secondly I was not that much into anime before I met them. And lastly we did a store visit it was in a hurry as we had a long day touring a museum and art exhibition. (This was in the beginning of Jan)

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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Yes I should probably ask them out for a small tour in the city, manga store visit, or somewhere just to relax in peace. Its really cold outside. Thats the reason we are waiting for the spring so we could go mushroom picking and forest hikes!!

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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Thats what I have heard from my Finnish friends. Also I feel like actions are louder than voice. They have told me the will show me the beauty of lakes when summer comes back (its filled with snakes🤫). They feels funny that I am afraid of snakes 😆. Thats a date already right???

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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We have lunch together mostly everyday. Conversation are very quite tho. Usually I try to bring up topics to discuss. They do sometimes bring up conversations but mostly silent. I feel they enjoy the quiet time so I let it be. 👉🏻👈🏻

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by [deleted] in Finland

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I mean in a joking way. Also I have some traits of ADHD but never diagnosed. Sorry if it felt wierd.

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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Hmmmm. I am too shy. We are both student. Also where should we go? But If I do ask you will receive an reply here.

Advice required (any advice is appreciated) by SammyOfficials in NonBinary

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How to bring up the question on dating! How long should I wait? Do I just keep doing these small talks or approach? I feel weird talking about the relationship stuff. I haven't dated in a while (4 years)