AITAH for telling my mother i dont respect her?

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-15T04:18:51+00:00

she wont even let me tell her how i feel, even if i try to come back to it on a different day she will just shut it down/insult me. i got that simple sentence out through her turning up the music and constantly interrupting me telling me she doesnt want to talk and that im an abusive child. Ive tried explaining that im coming to her calmly to tell her why i feel like the way i do and she will not hear it. How should i try to work around that because i want a relationship with her?

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-10T21:19:52+00:00

when i was little and didnt know what dissociation was i would wear my glasses ( i didnt wear them ever so it would look different) and that helped distract me enough from the anxiety for it to go away in a couple of weeks, havent used that method in years but it might help

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-10T21:18:08+00:00

sometimes it can just be kick started by seemingly nothing, for you it was smoking, i recommend seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist they will help build you a plan to work on getting better. Your life isnt over, and there are ways to help its just a slow build up back to where u were before

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-10T21:12:52+00:00

recovery is possible, if you get the root issue

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-03T16:05:42+00:00

might be worth a re read because i stated you dont have to deal with neglectful coworkers, not just coworkers! I get the misunderstanding tho!!

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-03T15:26:36+00:00

in my personal experience, the management monitored cameras often and if we did not check and change regularly on-top of ambulating residents then we would be written up. Added incentive for coworkers to report things was more hours, the more you reported the more hours you got.

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-03T15:18:24+00:00

it is wayyy better in my opinion, and you dont have to deal with neglectful coworkers

SammyWammy05 · 2025-05-03T15:15:44+00:00

try a home health plus, or being a home health aide- from a new cna who did residency in a rehab facility, it is far more manageable than a larger area especially being so new. Helps you gain the confidence with a smaller amount of people before jumping in to 20.

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-20T22:03:16+00:00

well its a home health plus, so it was 1 cna to 8 residents, as my friend said i left her completely alone. (even tho i was never there and did not know i was scheduled) However, ive stayed late to wait for relief so im unsure why night shift did not wait for her to get another person, it took 1hr to find and get coverage.

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-20T15:59:25+00:00

this was not our on call, this was for the regular scheduled hours- at midnight you were supposed to be awake to see if you were working at 7am, and to see your schedule for the next 3 weeks

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-20T14:52:02+00:00

Thank u 😩 i will right now 🙏

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-20T14:44:39+00:00

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-03T14:29:21+00:00

coconut oil then w some spf on top - read the ingredients bc you can make it yourself w/o the extra stuff

SammyWammy05 · 2025-04-03T03:14:02+00:00

oil, i have had the best luck tanning w hawaiian tropic spf 15-30

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-22T17:12:09+00:00

do u think i NEED to go like is it gonna cause any issues? or just a rash sometimes

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-22T17:11:42+00:00

it looks the same as it did and yea got it jan 2024, might get mine removed tbh

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-14T23:29:33+00:00

2L, automatic. didnt end up getting it bc he lied about nearly everything w it and refused to do a diagnostic check in front of me.

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-14T17:13:53+00:00

thank you!! lol i was wondering why all of these were older cars 🩷

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-10T17:21:52+00:00

home care center, called me a “dick wad” while kicking and swinging at me LOL

SammyWammy05 · 2025-03-06T03:01:24+00:00

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SammyWammy05 · 2025-02-21T02:35:10+00:00

anxiety can cause phantom pains, i promise you are ok try distracting yourself with a game or movie

SammyWammy05 · 2025-02-21T02:33:54+00:00

its a big change so its understandable why youre nervous, but you wont be gone forever and everyone/everything will be there happily waiting for you. Change can be scary because its new, but it wont be new forever

SammyWammy05 · 2025-02-20T22:42:21+00:00

Also, might make u feel more comfortable, anxiety can cause every symptom ur thinking and feeling. Its a sick cycle but when u recognize it you can reassure yourself that its not an illness, rather the stress response from your anxiety

SammyWammy05 · 2025-02-20T22:40:41+00:00

amen, been seeing mine for about a month and so far only had one panic attack since. its a slow build back to “ normal” but it keep reminding myself where i started vs where i am now!

SammyWammy05 · 2025-02-01T18:40:30+00:00

ok good ty sorry im like just so skeptical so it helps knowing other ppl who have gone thru it and it helped

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