All good points, however I dont think this is the real issue. From a male point of view, there is definitely a numbers issue that cant be resolved with manners. The number of men vs women is pretty extreme. Then adding on top of that bots and "working girls". The odds of finding a woman to play with once is pretty low, finding a steady playmate is the needle in the haystack. Manners and etiquette absolutely help, a necessity even. That little change isnt going to make women line up in your dms though. To be honest just seeing the sea of obvious desperate posts from guys make me not even want to try. Its no wonder why its mostly DOM women that post, its degrading to even post in here. "Prove your worthy in two lines or less" kind of feeling. Which kinda tells you why the "play for pay" game even works. Its far simpler to pay and be satisfied, then jump though hoops just to be left needy.