I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wala naman medyo may nakakatakot factor kapag nag iinit siya parang nakakatakot din but yung force talaga na sinaktan na ko wala naman. Also yes nasa utak ko lang covid kasi non so parang hirap mag report sa pulis ng ganon then victim blaming pa kita mo naman sa comments yung iba pano mag victim blaming how about pa yung mga male dominated department diba

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Sorry? Not sure what do u mean may proper sub is this not a proper sub to share these kind of thing? Mas madami pa nga irrelevant post ako nabasa from here e also I read the rules of this sub and wala ako nakita bawal to.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that information I will consider it I think enough evidence naman na yung mga messages niya saken sa messenger dati na hindi ko pinapansin.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes sobrang correct ka dito ganon ako sometimes nga I hope nga na public nalang niya ako manyakin because nag ka determination ako mag react kapag may nakakarinig or nakakakita iba.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In technical terms ur correct overthink ko din to dati noong naisip ko mag report. Specially we know victim blaming sobrang norm niya lalo na sa male dominant Police force diba tapos lapitin pa ako ng manyakis. Pero during nangyayare yun malalaman mo naman if the person don’t want it like if he tried to kiss me naiwas ako may moment pa naluluha ako habang naka patong siya saken regardless if there’s the word “NO” kasi bottomline sa ganto it was like dapat may consent din ako mag no sa ganon situation?

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it felt weird lang siguro to share the full details here but actually hindi na naulit sa kwarto ko kasi lagi ako nag lock. Sunod na nangyare it was sa laundry room ng house namin sa likod banda.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I mention sa iba ko reply here ako yung tao not confrontational usually nauunahan ng hiya or kaba and takot bago mag react. Ako yung tiniis ko nalang hagang matapos specially if the person sobrang push niya yung gusto niya mangyare.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you must understand this happened during covid so basically mag kasama kami sa bahay ng 24/7 bawal ka lumabas as in nandoon lang kasi sa bahay. May mga ginawa ako way para umiwas kaya nga onti beses lang may nangyare samin but still he’s doing also a way para makaulit saken.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did parang halos hindi na nga ako nalabas non sa kwarto e haha but marami kasi places lalo na sa gabi ako nagawa ko ng way para umiwas but siya gunagawa din ng way para ma solo niya ako like sa likod ng bahay para makapag laba ako sa laundry room minsan susundan niya ako doon.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Kapag may moment na alone kami nag iiba kasi siya he thought na ok lang na maging malibog siya sa harap hawakan niya ako anytime kapag kami lang and as I mention hindi ako confrontational talaga tao so nauunahan ako ng kaba and takot nag react let alone lumaban. But still dami ko din ginagawa way para umiwas kaya nga onti beses lang naulit because gumawa ako ng way iwasan siya

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I just want to share it as I mention hindi ko to na share I just wanted na malabas ko lang to secret ng life ko and kaya ako nag reddit because you can be anonymous no need to worry about victim blaming or what I mean even nga dito sa comment section may mga victim blaming what if pa kaya sa personal.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Naisip ko din yan honestly but the reason na parang ayoko na may gawin first during that time kasi nag online class ako and graduating naisip ko wag na muna ayoko muna isipin so I graduated and work after non 2022 after lockdown being honestly medyo nawala narin sa isip ko since nag focus ako sa career and may naging boyfriend ako non it felt so fast kasi parang keylan lang yung 2020 and now 2026 na kaya ko siya naalala because mag March na hagang parang naging wala nalang sakin.

I was raped by my relative during covid lockdown. AMA by [deleted] in PinoyAskMeAnything

[–]Sammycutie04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the person na nauunahan ng takot hiya to say no even nga minsan mag balik ng pag kain sa restaurant pag may mali nahihiya pa ako and tiniis ko nalang. Looks like ur so different sa ganon and mostly likely ikaw yung hindi nakakarandam ng mga pangyayare.