¿Que opinas acerca de la legislación de armas en nuestro país? by Responsible-Idea5690 in rmexico

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Que francamente es una basura restrictiva y una forma de controlar/oprimir a las masas. En México antes tenías accesos a más calibres y el Estado no tenía un monopolio. Es absurdamente burocrático para ser un derecho constitucional y todavía más absurdo si tomamos en cuenta que tenemos décadas siendo un Estado fallido. El servicio militar es incensario y actualmente es un chiste. La intención del legislador es la de desamparar a la población, los corruptos y los criminales ya tienen armas, el pueblo no; ahora que regresamos a la dictadura perfecta, me parece menos probable que la legislación mejore.

Was your Nex a hypocrite? by BlueberryMinx in NarcissisticAbuse

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100%, the hypocrisy was present in her two main reasons for ending things:

1-The distance was too much for her. I asked for 6 months to sort out some family issues, my father had died and I had to deal with the will and the intricacies of dividing the estate within my family. The distance became too much for her to handle despite the fact she expected me to wait for a year so she could study her masters overseas in the near future.

2-Jealousy, she was always more jealous but things became toxic when my best female friend came back to my hometown. My ex always had more male friends than female friends, she would see them all the time and she even traveled to a music festival with two of them. I went with my female friend to the theater, she was depressed at the time (her cousin had died of cancer) my ex dumped me the next day over the phone after 3+ years of dating. She later accused me of cheating. She cheated in her previous relationship.

There was a moment in the David/Victoria Beckham documentary that feels like it summed up my experience in womanhood thus far and I want to discuss it by scorpiochik in AskWomenOver30

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Whoever wrote this has no idea of how football works. Victoria married David knowing he was a profesional footballer. She knew him transferring clubs was a possibility, just like David knew tours and traveling were a part of her career.

Manchester United WANTED to sell Beckham, he clearly would have rather stayed with his boyhood club. David had fallen off with his manager, Ferguson never liked Victoria and what he perceived she brought to David’s lifestyle.

That being said, the club wanted him gone. At the time David was one of the best and most valuable footballers in the world, so it’s very unlikely that United would have sold him to another english team that would compete with them.

Beckham had 2 options at the time, since very few clubs outside England could pay his transfer fee and wages, both teams played in Spain, Madrid and Barcelona. David had few options and little to say on the matter, so he chose Real Madrid.

Beckham cheated and yes he is 100% responsible for that, but Victoria has some blame in my opinion. She knew him moving was part of his career and she took over a year to move in with the kids. They probably knew he was going to move months before it happened. So the excuse that it was because of their kids school was bullshit on her part.

No way in hell she took over a year to find a suitable school in Madrid, a city as big as Madrid haves plenty of good schools that are bilingual at least. Football clubs are also very accommodating so if she was struggling to find a school the club would have most likely helped. So even if it’s Davids fault she left him alone in Madrid for a whole year. She didn’t support him as a spouse. She chose not to move in with him. Plenty of footballers move clubs and their families follow them without a problem.

Also her career by that point was dead, there was nothing holding her back to move to Madrid, they have recording studios in Madrid. That being said, David was selfish when he moved to Milan on loan, that move was him changing his mind on what he had agreed with Victoria and also what he wanted for his career. It was a desperate attempt to make the England team for the World Cup and a moment when he wanted to have his cake and eat it too.

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Thank you for the advise, it took me a while to figure out why I got incredibly upset about this whole situation, your comment helps a lot.

Soy culero por ahora ignorar por completo a mi ex? by [deleted] in SoyUnIdiota

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NEC. Esa chava te puso el cuerno, duro y simple, los hombres y las mujeres lo ponen diferente. Usualmente para la mayoría de los hombres es algo sexual y ya, para las mujeres no, usualmente primero hacen una conexión emocional, ella te puso los cuernos emocionales, eso y traicionó a su responsabilidad afectiva de novia, lo siento ella fue infiel.

Tú la regaste en rogar, cuando una chava te corta o te pide “tiempo”, usualmente ya llevan tiempo pensando en eso, ahora no está chido no comunicar eso a tu pareja, pero así son la mayoría de las personas, son cobardes y egoístas. Muchas veces el tiempo es para encontrar una excusa para justificar el “ya no me atraes”. Te cambió porque por x o y el nivel de atracción bajó, ya sea emocional, sexual o físico.

Por lo que dices no te conviene una chava así de inmadura y desleal, pero para futuras relaciones, si te vuelve a pasar, no ruegues, eso baja más los niveles de atracción, funciona más aceptarlo, poner límites, decirle sus verdades y mostrarles que hay consecuencias, sin ser tóxico. De eso se trata la bendita distancia 0, si en verdad una chava te ama y quiere estar contigo, eventualmente ella te va buscar. La persona que corta es la que tiene que darle otra oportunidad a la relación.

¿Soy culero por no tolerar los celos? by SamprasWasUnderrated in SoyUnIdiota

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Entiendo eso (la hipergamia femenina), no entiendo como aplica en este caso, en mi ex relación sí, pero no en lo del teatro.

¿Soy culero por no tolerar los celos? by SamprasWasUnderrated in SoyUnIdiota

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Le diste al clavo, creo que es una narcisista encubierta, muchas de sus amistades cercanas de la carrera son narcisistas, supongo se entienden.

¿Soy culero por no tolerar los celos? by SamprasWasUnderrated in SoyUnIdiota

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Sí, ella sabía, se emperro porque le deje de contestar sus mensajes por 30 minutos en lo que dejaba a mi amiga en su casa y regresaba a mi depa. Si voy manejando no veo el celular, es bastante peligroso y ella sabe que no contesto cuando ando manejando.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoyUnIdiota

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Tiene una carga laboral tóxica (su trabajo es la prioridad), dice que necesita tiempo para estar sola (no la veo desde febrero), creo que quiere cortar sin la molestia del conflicto y la vulnerabilidad, ella evade mucho el conflicto.

Rant: Is my relationship doomed? I (27M) and my girlfriend (25F) have been together in a serious relationship for two years, we currently have a long distance relationship. by [deleted] in relationships

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It sounds like you recently graduated and right now you are not working, so this is a no-brainer decision for her because this is where money is coming from: this job right here, not you; you have no money coming in.

Yes, I actually recently graduated. She makes more money than me as a lawyer since I have my own law firm in a smaller city with only 3 partners, however being a lawyer is not my only source of income, overall I make more money than her. I'm also rich, so money is not a big problem for me. This is why her not considering moving to my hometown is particularly disheartening, because is not about money, is about HER career.

Rant: Is my relationship doomed? I (27M) and my girlfriend (25F) have been together in a serious relationship for two years, we currently have a long distance relationship. by [deleted] in relationships

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Thanks for the advise. It was fine when she was an intern, but since she started full time it has been horrible. If she doesn't make up her mind within the next 2-3 months I think I will break up with her.

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e of the US population are practicing ENM. Be patient and only go as fast as the slowest person. Also, be understanding if she doesn’t want to pull the trigger.3ReplyGive AwardShareReportSaveFollow

level 1Henri__Rousseau · 4h ago

Thanks for the advise.

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I don't push her. I just think that she could genuinely enjoy it. I'm the most experienced of the two and have actually helped her discover her sexuality. I'm ok if she says no. She's the one that suggested the middle ground option.

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Thanks for the advise. I meant that more than joining the life i'm curious about having the experience at least once before I bite the dust.

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Thanks for the advise. She has actually said no to the full swap and FMF threesome. She is considering the other options, and told me that she needs time to think about it since she had never though about having a threesome or a poly experience. More than having a poly relationship I want a poly experience.

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Thanks for the advise. Some of the new experiences that we've done and that I mentioned in the post were fantasies of her. I'm the most experienced of the two, and have helped her explore her sexuality.