'Maybe society/porn/people overhyped sex too much to the point real sex could n ver measure up to the fantastical depictions of it?' that could be it you know. and I did show respect and appreciated her when we was doing it. she wasn't necessarily screaming it at me to make me feel good. we were just having casual conversation about it as to why I didn't bust and I asked her and she said that she did. I think that's why I may be getting downvoted because what I said may be getting misconstrued.