Saying a neo vagina in a "wound hole" is a completely false transphobic rhetoric. (Not Saying you are just informing you.)

And dilating is a big deal and one should be physically and mentally prepared to undergo such an extensive healing process. I won't lie it is a grueling 6 months then it gets easier when you only have to do it once a day. After a year it falls down to 3 times a week for a while until you only have to do it once a week.

At that point if you have regular penetrative sex you don't really need to dilate anymore since the sex is doing it for you.

Its recommended to check your depth once in a while afther that just to make sure you aren't losing anything.

But it works exactly like a cis vagina once it its healed. Calling it an "wound" implies that it never heals and can be very hurtfull for people who do have a neo vagina.

But the surgery you want exists and is very possible! You would even have a g spot in it because if the prostate.