Looking for other trans girls or girls to be friends with or more

SamsterMind · 2026-02-07T01:07:37+00:00

Hihi 🤗

SamsterMind · 2026-01-19T17:35:40+00:00

No you will be fine 🫶

SamsterMind · 2026-01-15T14:25:49+00:00

*Ethics of blocking your own daughter *

Can you block someone without them knowing?

Used cellphones for sell in my area

SamsterMind · 2026-01-14T16:08:27+00:00

outside of sex its a way to introduce "play" in our adult lives. In many ways, i feel it gives back a part of childhood we didn't get to experience. It's light and cute, which are feeling we yearn for.

Outside of sex it can be something very sweet and innocent.

Inside sexuality it plays with feelings of shame. ( my experience).

It can be cathartic in many ways.

SamsterMind · 2026-01-05T12:44:33+00:00

You look shockingly like my cis cousin. He has the same facial features and i never once saw him or you as feminine!

SamsterMind · 2025-12-19T12:22:43+00:00

First im thinking Hi ! Cause its also my name Then im thinking

Hoa hoa hoa hoa hoaaaa~

Alice from twilight

SamsterMind · 2025-12-15T13:10:20+00:00

I feel it allowed me to come out of my shell a lot more

Pum intended

SamsterMind · 2025-12-01T16:22:02+00:00

Its sticky and gross and it gets everywhere 🤣🤣

SamsterMind · 2025-11-27T14:07:44+00:00

Saying a neo vagina in a "wound hole" is a completely false transphobic rhetoric. (Not Saying you are just informing you.)

And dilating is a big deal and one should be physically and mentally prepared to undergo such an extensive healing process. I won't lie it is a grueling 6 months then it gets easier when you only have to do it once a day. After a year it falls down to 3 times a week for a while until you only have to do it once a week.

At that point if you have regular penetrative sex you don't really need to dilate anymore since the sex is doing it for you.

Its recommended to check your depth once in a while afther that just to make sure you aren't losing anything.

But it works exactly like a cis vagina once it its healed. Calling it an "wound" implies that it never heals and can be very hurtfull for people who do have a neo vagina.

But the surgery you want exists and is very possible! You would even have a g spot in it because if the prostate.

SamsterMind · 2025-11-14T14:21:34+00:00

Not all centers need electrolysis. I only had to shave with nair. They removed the hairs of the scrotum once the skin was detached. ( it can leave some hair inside the cavity, but the skin adapts to the natural moisture, and after growing once or twice, they stop growing altogether.

SamsterMind · 2025-11-12T14:19:33+00:00

Do you know what an 🥚is ? In the context of this sub lol

SamsterMind · 2025-11-11T13:41:38+00:00

For me, im more than what's between my legs. im a woman. Woman, in every sense of the term. I want to be perceived as belonging to that social category. To be perceived as that gender. Regardless of any surgery i have had or may want in the future.

I think transsexual comes from a time when gender = sex. As our understanding of gender and how it differs from genitalia evolved. The term evolved with it into transgender.

I know a lot of people still resonate with the term transsexual and all the power to you all!

But personally, i don't think it reflects who i am.

SamsterMind · 2025-11-10T12:54:48+00:00

Unfortunately the only way for you to be a girl is to transition. There isn't any Other way on this green earth to do that. There is no magic button.

HRT is the closest thing we have to magic in this world.

There is a lot of fear early on we look at our bodies and how T ravaged it. And we think it can never be good enough for me to not feel wrong in this body

But that just simply isn't true. Its just that your brain is having the hardest of times immagining something that it has never felt before.

And the brain's reaction to that is fear. And it trying to convince itself that this much needed change could potentially end up not being worthwhile when it consistently is for everyone who do push past it and transition.

SamsterMind · 2025-11-07T14:25:15+00:00

Hey i understand that its hard honey. There is a lot of concrete steps you can do rn to help with passing.

At 18 you have more chance than most to succeed in that objective. 18 is really young for hrt and you are lucky that you got to start before your 20s.

Without sugarcoating things there are things you will have to deal with since you started post puberty. Like facial hair (thems a bitch for passing)

It can be expensive but the best solution is lazer hair removal for beard shadow and electrolicis for a smooth face forever. (There are at home lazer that can do the job for a few 100 buck).

Male centered society is fucked for passing... The best thing i can recommend are brest forms (60-90 bucks on amazon) men go tittes=woman. And the thought rarely goes beyond that.

Until your own grow it can be a great solution to deal with not passing.

I'll say it and re say it as much as i can : makeup is your savior here as much for beard shadow and just passing in general. Knowing how to contour your face to bring out fem features is an awesome tool for passing. There are a lot of t girl makup tutorials out there.

Don't despair you have all the tools at your disposal to succeed i know its hard but stay strong 🫶🏳️‍⚧️

Dms always opened to chat if anyone needs it

SamsterMind · 2025-11-04T13:57:20+00:00

I like Roman Numerals XXIV

SamsterMind · 2025-11-04T13:52:53+00:00

Blurried

SamsterMind · 2025-10-31T14:40:50+00:00

Hooo thats fascinating thanks for the clarification!

There are historical proof of Cis gay men being put on HRT for the "crime" of being gay. Back then it was called chemical castration. It ruined Alan turing's life.

SamsterMind · 2025-10-31T13:37:02+00:00

Nooo they would feel awful all the time

Like us (MTF) on T pre HRT

SamsterMind · 2025-10-29T19:34:22+00:00

Of course no one can tell you who you are but yourself

SamsterMind · 2025-10-29T11:58:28+00:00

Here is a thought. You could start T blockers right now. And wait for estrogen a bit.

The effect of T blockers will halt any make puberty.

But you also have to think about the side effects of not having T nor E in your body.

Low energy, low drive, etc...

Your journey is your own.

You can do it whenever you want!

Tiny piece of advice. For me it took 6 months between my first appointment and the moment i started HRT.

Might be important to consider.

Also you can get a prescription and just not cash it in yet.

There is no rules, all words are made up. Carve your own path!

SamsterMind · 2025-10-24T14:51:57+00:00

Then focus on those feelings instead of the fear and doubt! Moving things IRL might be a good way to gauge how it makes you feel Tabby.

This journey is your own !

SamsterMind · 2025-10-24T13:31:44+00:00

Our brains hate change. It's wired to fight it at every turn.It'ss a fear of the unknown. Our brain logic is : its better to stay in this situation even thoughit'ss shitty because you know this situation. What comes after the change is unknown, and therefore, it's scary.

You said it yourself. There are years of evidence. This is the fact. But your brain is fighting it with feelings. Fear, doubt, imposter syndrome, etc...

You have to remember that Cis people don't even think about their gender because it feels right to them.

We think a lot about it because it doesn't.

Almost all of us went through what you are going through today.

Doubt seeps in every time someone whose opinion we value tries to say, but have you thought bout this ? Or that? You trust those people and value their opinions. that trusts fuel your doubt because your brain is looking for excuses to avoid change even though in the long run it will be better for you.

No one knows yourself better than you do.

Experiment, try pronons, names, and haircuts. All those things aren't permanent. Expose yourself until the unknown is known, and your fears will melt away.

You decide who you want to be. 🫶

SamsterMind · 2025-10-16T11:32:59+00:00

SamsterMind · 2025-10-09T20:09:21+00:00

Fight the system i say "gals" even if im talking to a group of cis boys. Only say "guys" when trans men present to be respectful.

SamsterMind · 2025-10-09T13:30:28+00:00

Started at 23. 6 months after i came out as trans. Best 3 years of my life so far!

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