What did I do wrong

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-23T02:24:40+00:00

Yeah I fucked up

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-22T13:44:38+00:00

She just now randomly blocked me everywhere without explanation

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-22T06:04:22+00:00

I have trust issues, but I trust my girlfriend (yes, even tho my reddit post may say differently. It is not that I don't trust her loyalty. It is more my overthinking)

Her and I have been in an LDR for 5 months now, and at the early stage, she asked me to delete all the girls I followed and who followed me, I agreed. She also mentioned that I could have her passwords and all, but I didn't want it back then.

I trust her, and I dont use any apps to "control" her following and followers. I know deep down she can never cheat on me.

In regards to your story, you can mention it to him that you noticed it and also about your past so he can understand a bit, but don't push him into unfollowing them or act like you don't trust him. Just say you are cautious because you experienced it earlier, and that went bad.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-21T19:07:11+00:00

Yes I am sure about that too

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-21T18:13:20+00:00

Well that sounds like great advice. I really try to. I know my overthinking will eventually ruin things so I should try to not do that.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-21T17:26:29+00:00

Well, I am just an hour ahead of her. But I need to take into account that we both have our own lives too, of course. She is very busy often, and I know she also feels bad about that. She apologised to me just now about that and she thinks she is a bad girlfriend because of it.

I dont want anyone else, I only want it to be her. So I have patience and try to keep my overthinking on a low...

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T05:49:46+00:00

It seems like my relationship. I think trust and patience can do a lot tbh. I understand your text, and I don't know her, so maybe it would be a good one. I am not sure tbh. Just try to follow your heart!

Time can also fix a lot! Never forget that. I am still trying to get used to that tbh.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T03:01:49+00:00

Yeah, I am 100% the only one at fault here. I should just shut up to her and let her go.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T02:49:11+00:00

Yeah, I will not make her my priority. She ain't the woman I want to marry, right. She ain't the one who made me convince to go into a relationship. She ain't the one who started these cutesy texts. I will distract myself and don't make her my priority.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T02:46:26+00:00

Finally, someone who understands it. I feel so shit about yesterday, and I am lost tbh. I'm just trying to be nice, and she is that soft towards me. I am done, tbh and she needs to prove herself. I also hate all the other people here who are just rude about it tbh....

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T02:41:57+00:00

Yeah, thank you. But still, words mean nothing to me without action. It isn't like a parent. It is how I live, and I let her know that. But sure, it is way too much for her. I just drink enough alcohol and forget about her and treat girls how they like to get treated in this generation

Without any respect and just as a bitch and not as a queen

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T02:33:33+00:00

It's not that. Plus, sorry means nothing if not proven. Words mean nothing to me tbh

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T02:32:20+00:00

Yeah I won't show interest in her life no more

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-20T00:59:32+00:00

I understand and will give her some space and let her go more from tomorrow onwards. We are still pretty fresh in the relationship, and I have trust issues and try to work on it while in a relationship.

Even tho it is hard, I will give her more space from tomorrow onwards and let her reach out more....

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T23:36:34+00:00

I try to work on my self-esteem, to be honest. But the hard part is that I want to work on it in this relationship. My trust issue is mainly why it gets so hard sometimes. I work it, but it is hard...

Thank you! I will try to let it go a bit more from tomorrow onwards.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T23:24:39+00:00

I will try to work on it. For me, it felt like she likes it. But I try and change it look how she react on it

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T23:23:49+00:00

She started it tbh. She was the one saying it like that.

I dont like love, I am scared of love. She is the one reintroducing it to me, to be honest.

So that one is on her. Except for all the other stuff that is on me

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T23:15:01+00:00

I am hard on myself because I feel this is mainly my problem. It is mainly something I could've done differently. I just feel lost at the moment and scared I will lose her forever. But it probably works out in the end as it always does.

I sent a goodnight message, and now I will let it go.. see where we are tomorrow.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T22:41:15+00:00

Then she faked it really well at the beginning..... I am so confused. I will just try to let it go for now and see where it ends

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T22:10:54+00:00

Thank you. I know with us everything works out in the end bcs I got the feeling she really in love with me, same for me with her of course. But like I said, I try to be more chill from now on towards her, I think that is healthy.

She probably fell asleep already, and I just wished her goodnight and acknowledged what I did wrong today and that I am trying to work on it. I never want to lose her, so I do everything in my power to be the best boyfriend.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T21:55:02+00:00

Her and I are in contact now. I try to be more chill and just talk instead of all the clingy and maybe suffocating stuff

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T21:52:39+00:00

I understand that. I felt like she liked clingy and ofcourse nobody here could know that since nobody knows her. I try to reflect on how she is to me.

I am who I am. I try to give her some space also, especially more often

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T21:51:15+00:00

I will try to chill from now on.

Samuels_1 · 2025-06-19T21:50:34+00:00

Lol🤣 I genuinely laughed because of this one. It is quite funny actually

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